I know,I know,stupid question.But I have a former friend who is bi,and she is a swinger.
2007-01-09 14:58:33 · 13 answers · asked by Dragonflygirl 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Swinging activities can include (but are not limited to):
Exhibitionism: having sex with a partner while being watched.
Voyeurism: watching others have sex (perhaps with the above mentioned partner).
Soft Swinging or Soft Swap: kissing, stroking, or having oral sex with a third or fourth person. This may be in the form of a threesome or group sex, or partners may literally be swapped.
Full Swap: having penetrative sex with someone other than one's partner, which is the commonly understood definition of swinging (though not necessarily the most common type).
Group Sex: An all inclusive term for activities involving multiple partners in the same vicinity.
Typically, swinging activities occur when a married or otherwise committed couple engages with either another couple, multiple couples, or a single individual. These acts can occur in the same room (often called same room swinging) though different or separate room swinging does occur. Sex on these occasions is often referred to as play.
While the vast majority of swingers are heterosexual couples, a major part of Lifestyle activities are bisexual in nature. A large portion of female swingers, while they may or may not identify as bisexual, are interested in female-female sexual contact. Male-male contact is very rare, and usually frowned upon at a Swing Club/Party.
Female bisexuality and bicurious is extremely common in both the urban and traditional swinging scene and tends to be the norm amongst participants. No studies have been conducted as to what percentage of swinging women who define themselves as bisexual would be open to romantic as well as sexual relations with both genders.
Male bisexuality is less common in the swinging scene, but is becoming more common and more accepted. More openly bi men and bisexual couples (male-female couples where both partners are bisexual) are appearing on the scene. Whether this is due to increasing acceptance in the scene or greater numbers of men "turning bi" is open to discussion. Depending on the club or social situation, male bisexuality among swingers may either be frowned upon, or openly accepted.
2007-01-10 02:06:55 · answer #1 · answered by B 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Being a "swinger" has nothing to do with one's sexuality. Sometimes swingers sleep with other couples, have threesomes or foursomes, so there will be a girl and guy and girl, or vise versa, so obviously that person would need to be comfortable sleeping with a same sex person. Other times, a swinger couple will "play" alone, meaning the wife will sleep with a different guy, or the husband will sleep with a different girl. Other times, swingers do full swaps, where the wife sleeps with the other husband, and the husband sleeps with the other wife.
Swingers come in a variety of shapes and sizes, and can be straight, gay, lesbian, or bi.
2007-01-10 14:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not a stupid question. i think the meaning of "swinger" is misinterpreted by lots.
A swinger is someone (Male or Female) who goes to Swinger clubs, parties, outings, etc...with other swinger coulpes, singles, and has sex with multiple partners at these events. There are straight swingers or gay swingers, whichever you like.......
In the case of your friend, I'm sure as a bi female that she could participate just about whereever she wanted to, straight or gay!
2007-01-09 15:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by Steven Keith 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bi-women are more prevalent in the swinger lifestyle than bi-men. Much more.
Being a swinger simply means that a married or otherwise committed couple opens-up their sex life to include others. They can be male or female, straight, bi, or gay. Just depends on what you are and what you are looking for.
2007-01-10 10:06:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A swinger is anyone that can easily strip, or engage in sexual activities with any gender of the human being. You don't necessarily have to be bi-sexual to be a swinger. A swinger can be anyone. Just look at the option Myspace.com gives you. Anyone can place that their orientation is a Swinger. The online dictionary, www.dictionary.com, supports what I have said. It states that a swinger is the following, "A person who engages freely in promiscuous sex." The website also gives a second definition of swinger which is as follows: "A person who actively seeks excitement and moves with the latest trends."
I hope what I have said helps. Good luck!
2007-01-09 15:07:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most swingers are, in fact, straight, although there are gay swingers and bisexual swingers and everything in between.
All swinging means is 'switching' sexual partners (usually with another couple), and the gender of the participant can be either way (keeping it straight, like two men sleeping with one another's wives), or mixing it up with same-sex pairings.
Hope that helps!
2007-01-09 15:03:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being a swinger is like couples dating!
2007-01-12 22:53:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Swingers are people who like to trade partners with other swingers, and it's a totally pan-sexual activity.
2007-01-09 15:03:18 · answer #8 · answered by texjoy86 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, most swingers are straight.In a lot of couples the female is bi.Each couple decides what they want to do and looks for a couple with like desires. Peace
2007-01-09 17:05:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A swinger can belong to any life style, but perhaps if Bi will have double the pleasure ;)
2007-01-12 07:36:51 · answer #10 · answered by subbhubby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋