how to tell my mom im pregnant?

Question

im 17 years old and im 7 months pregnant i wanna tell my mom but i dont kno how... i havent been to the doctor yet but i kno im pregnant b/c i feel movement and i havent had my period since june.and im not showin hardly wat should i do?

Answer 1

There will be no easy way to break the news this late in the pregnancy. Tell your mom you need to talk to her and just tell her the truth.Your mother will be shocked at first but she will accept the news. She will be concerned about your future if you don't have an education She may not realize it at first but she will love this baby and will try to help you when she can. Tell your mom that you love her and hope that she will be a part of you and your baby's life. Just a thought maybe ,at 7 months, your mother suspects that you may be pregnant but won't say anything in case she is wrong. The reason I say this is that if you live in the same house your mother may have noticed you are not buying your monthly hygienne supplies. when your baby is born look at your mom's face when she is holding her grandchild. Sometimes life doesn't go according to our plan but it always seems to work out.

Answer 2

Well, 7 months is pretty late. She must not be paying much attention if she doesn't see the change in your body. Sounds bad to say it, but she'll probably feel so guilty for not noticing that she won't react too horribly. There will be shock, and there may be yelling, but in the end she'll hold that grandbaby and love you and the child eternally. And you REALLY need to go to the doctor, because if there's anything wrong or any kind of complications, the sooner they find out, the more they can help. Think about how bad you'll feel if there's something wrong with the kid that could've been prevented in gestation. Just go to a free health clinic in your area, and I'm sure you, your mom, and your unborn child will be fine! Good luck!

Answer 3

Just find a time when you know she is not going to be tired (emotions take over more instead of a calmer, logical reaction when people are tired), and when it seems she is not stressed out about something. Hopefully you will find this time slot soon. Just sit her down and let it all come out. You will feel so much better when it does. Just know that this hurdle will help you soo much and that is what you need right now. Dont keep it all on yourself. It is putting strain on your body and thats not good for you or your baby. Go on sweetie. Take the leap. Please let me know how it goes, and congratulations on the wonderful life you are creating!

Answer 4

Put yourself in her situation...in the future though. Let's say your baby is a girl and 17 yrs later is pregnant. Wouldn't you want her to tell you? Just sit mom down and tell her. Get the stress off your shoulders (stress will affect your baby too) and get it out in the open. You need to go see a Dr for your baby's sake and get the vitamins in you for him/her.
As far as not showing...if you are 7 months along, I can relate. I carried high and my friends and family didn't believe I was as far as I said because I was somewhat overweight and I never looked like most women with the bowling ball tummy. I never dropped and ended up with C-section. Please for the sake of you and your baby, go get some pre-natal care. I wish you the best.

Answer 5

First of all, you need to sit her down and be straight forward and honest. She will want to know how long you have known, who the daddy is and why you didn't tell her sooner. She will be upset and she has every right to be.

Secondly, you need to get to the doctor as soon as possible. I hope this baby is healthy. You have very little time to prepare for the arrival. Good luck you will need it, this will be the start of a very difficult time for you.

Answer 6

You will have to tell her eventually... You only have 2 months left.. Also get to the Dr. as soon as possible even though pregnancy is very natural and women have been doing it for centuries without check ups in this day and age anything can go wrong... Especially if you are new to this...

Answer 7

One, you have put your baby at risk by not going to the doctor before now. It is time to put your baby first and not yourself no matter how hard it may be. Two, you'd better tell her soon since you need to be ready not just for the baby to come home, but for the baby to come. It's really time to just suck it up, sit her down, and tell her. You don't have much more time to ignore it. Like the Nike ads say, "Just do it!"

Answer 8

Tell her now, for the safety of the baby and you. go to the doctor. And think.... Are you keeping the baby are you wanting to give the baby up for adoption. No matter which of these you choose thing need to be done to prepare for the baby. so tell you mom and get busy with preparing.
Does the father know? Even if you give the baby up he needs to be told.

Answer 9

Honey, your mom is going to find out in 2 months, so you better tell her before you have it!!! If you are worried that she will disappointed just imagine what it would be like for her if you keep hiding it. You need to tell her ASAP and get some prenatal care while you still can. Good luck with everything and be brave and tell her!!!

Answer 10

My parents were putting in their yard so I got them a small tree that had a note hanging from it saying "There is a new branch on the family tree" With my in laws I gave them a picture frame that said baby at the top. Where you put the pic I wrote picture to follow in 6 months. This time we were having dinner at my inlaws and I was supposed to bring a dessert. I made cookies that were shaped like booties. I frosted them blue and pink.