This ought to be interesting!
2007-01-09 14:51:29 · 68 answers · asked by JustLynn 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I'll try! A woman HAS to know that us men think with our MINDS, not our hearts-WE WILLL FORGET ANNIVERSARYS & SUCH!!! Forgiveness is expected! Fueled further on by our egos, we WILL definitely defend Anything & EVERYTHING purchased by us with a worth of over $20-DVDs, Stereo equipment, speakers-ANYTHING!! PLEASE respect this!! PLEASE don't ask us more questions than we can handle at on given time!! More than three at a time WILL cause an abrupt "Will you shut the f*** up & let me think?!" We LOVE sex as much as, if not more, than you do-don't try to use this against us(we WILL become re-acquainted with hand lotion-yours if we run out)!! Just don't like to cuddle & talk afterwards. We don't have to watch football games all the time, it's just an excuse to stare idly at a TV to get out of the dreaded "Honey Do" list-PLEASE respect this one. It's important! We WILL talk, listen, hold hands, & even kiss in public. But at our own pace! Don't rush us!! We LOVE a woman with confidence, not the cheezy chick that can't work out ANY of her problems. No crybabies, either. A job helps, too. Although we will help with the bills, don't expect it all the time-we have electronics to buy too. Sacrifices sometimes have to be made. We can, for the most part, cook our own food. So that "The way to a man's heart..." saying is nonsense... Anything else? I'm sure there's more...
2007-01-09 15:21:18 · answer #1 · answered by Paintspinner37 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 33yrs,and in my opinion,we want the same as most women.We want a women that will let us be a man.Be ourselves,spend time together but know that we need time to ourselves,even if it is an hour a day.Show us the passion,and honesty,and faithfulness,that you would expect for yourselves.To not judge us,but just go with our flow sometimes.Alot of guys out there are pigs and give the good ones a very bad rep.We all don't want to get in get off and get out.But if you make a man feel secure,and safe,just as you women need.If we could be evaluated more on what we could be, than what we sometimes are,you might be suprised.Alot of good guys,out here believe all women want is the money and a big dick.so the good men don't ask you out(because we may not have these things).So women lose out a good man,with alot of other great qualities.
2007-01-10 01:34:25 · answer #2 · answered by m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grassy thinks like this
Its a pyranid where needs are the foundation and wants are the middle layer, followed by fantasies capping off the pyramid.
To keep a man supply his needs, wants, and fantasies
Essentially its the same for a woman
Everyone wants and needs the big O
Not all the wants and fantasies can be accomplished - but ask and try
2007-01-10 00:09:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's a great question... an honest one that makes you think.
What do I want ( Assuming you mean in a significant other )
In a perfect world, she:
Street smart & book smart, but I place more importance on street smart.
Up to date with what is happening in the real world other than Paris Hilton, Donald Trump & Survivor.
Racially , religiously tolerant.
She must be a free thinker, a searcher... not content just to follow blindly.
She MUST have a sense of humor
She must be self confident but not cocky...
She should be spontaneous, able to pick up and go on the drop of a hat...
Not a TV addict...
She doesn't need to know how to cook, I am a great cook...
She should be social, comfortable going out with her friends while allowing me to go out with mine...
I don't like clingy people...
She should enjoy being pampered without being pretentious
She must love music... that is huge with me... I go to so many concerts...
She should be down to earth, laid back.
I don't know what else to say... I think I have covered most of it.
sorry so wordy... but you asked...lol.
2007-01-09 15:05:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the guy. Personally, I would just like an honest, loyal, and independent woman who has the same interests that I do. I want a loving partner who will love ME for who I am and not for what I have, for what I look like, or for what I do. The looks don't matter as much to me as the personality does.
I want the one woman I know I will always truly and unconditionally love.
I'd love a woman who has a lot of wisdom.
2007-01-09 14:56:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about other men, but I want a woman who I can take care of and in turn will take care of me, who will stay by my side for life. A girl who will be my best friend forever, who I can trust and trust me. A girl who I can have a meaningful conversation with. Sex is just an added bonus. There are more important things.
2007-01-09 14:58:22 · answer #6 · answered by El Castigo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak for others but I want a woman who is smart, independent but not to the point where she dose not need me. Funny, sincere and very affectionate. Cooking is not important because I do that. And someone who takes pride in her appearance. I see women who have been married a few years and just let themselves go to pot! But this is just my opinion. Good question by the way!
2007-01-09 14:59:33 · answer #7 · answered by Adam 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well quoting family guy.."what do you want money? women? men!????" lol i think guys just want to have good lifes and think because of stereotypes you should pick up girls and just use them and throw them away. i think and realized that to date a girl or women you should become good friends first, if you can be friends for a couple of months you can probably live with this women for the rest of your life or a long and meaningfull relation ship. i think women need to take charge and push back the sterotypes society has created.
2007-01-09 14:59:54 · answer #8 · answered by Davito 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just asked my husband. He is dictating, I am typing.
He says men want an equal partner. We have to be soft enough to touch but hard enough we can help build the deck. They want a best buddy in a girl body.
There you have it... from my living room couch. LOL!
2007-01-09 14:57:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tender question alert! Sound the siren!! Honestly though, I want a girl who has an awesome sense of humour and loves movies and reading.
2007-01-09 14:56:38 · answer #10 · answered by dogmatitans 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋