Is that because you're deliberately delaying it for 3 hours?
If so, that's good practice, because it takes women longer than men to reach orgasm. By learning how to delay yours, you're more likely to be able to last long enough when you're having sex with a woman.
If not, the first responder was right. You should see a doctor.
Big Al Mintaka
2007-01-09 14:59:23
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answered by almintaka 4
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The majority of men who masturbate can bring themselves to orgasm and ejaculation. There are also men who don't particularly like masturbation and do not find in arousing enough to reach orgasm or ejaculation. Both are normal.
Most often ejaculation and orgasm happen at the same time for men. But it's also true that sometimes men ejaculate without orgasm even if they are greatly aroused. And sometimes they orgasm without ejaculation.
The inability to orgasm from any kind of sex play, including masturbation, is called inhibited orgasm. Certain medications and physical or emotional conditions can also inhibit orgasm. The most common emotional reasons for inhibited orgasm are sexual guilt, shame, performance anxiety, and, when sex play is with another person, anger with the partner. Most of us will experience inhibited orgasm from time to time, and this is also normal.
In general, masturbation is safe and healthy and has no harmful physical or emotional effects. In fact, it has a number of physical and mental health benefits, including releasing stress and physical tension. Women and men who have not ever had an orgasm may take several different sessions to achieve orgasm. Women and men who want to try this should relax and take their time. But masturbation is not for everyone. We are all different, and being different is also normal.
2007-01-09 19:13:50
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answered by bisexualmale s 6
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Luckly this is a great solution for premature ejaculation http://EndPrematureEjaculation.enle.info/?7STT
A guy always cums fast when its their first time. and especially if he's been waiting for a long time. Guys are erect at least 5 times a day so what I would do is some foreplay until he ejaculates or the both of you for that matter its not fair that he has orgasms and you don't so get him to do you first and then once you finish he will be more than ready for his orgasm. then use a condom because that cuts down the sensations for him if he feels he is about to come prematurely then tell him to come out and do some more foreplay on you so he has time to calm down. the condom should work but if you want a baby tell him to take the condom of before ejaculation and then finish in you. the longer you wait to make him come with foreplay the quiker it will be because he has to get it out of him.
He also does need time because you are the only one he has been with so once he gets used to it, you can really enjoy it once he gets his techniques down pat. Tell him what you like. Get some books and videos also until you both are experienced. Or you could even have a quickie in the morning, when you get home and then at night. he will diffently last longer because his mind has been free twice already. You get on top of him and you control the situation. Also my boyfriend tells me that he thinks about none sexual things for a while to help control him, tell him to think about a sport or something that calms him. If that doesn't work then just do IT over until you are satisfied
2017-02-16 23:49:15
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answered by Ball 4
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Anywhere from 5 to 15 minutes the first time. I have gone longer if I've done it prior to that.
2007-01-10 02:38:00
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answered by Rocket 1
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depends on what im doing. 3 minutes up to 2 hours if im delaying it
2007-01-09 15:35:07
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answered by MSUSPARTANSFAN 1
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10-20 minutes depending how much of a hurry I'm in.
2007-01-09 14:56:12
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answered by Anonymous
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hmmmmmmmm but 5 to 10 min is normal with in that the semen will come. any way consult the professional
2007-01-09 16:01:38
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answered by Sky lark 3
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The less often you do it the quicker you climax
2007-01-10 03:43:01
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answered by bad_bob_69 7
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3 hours!?!? you might want to go see a doctor there kiddo.
2007-01-09 14:46:21
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answered by Anonymous
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Are you nervous? I would think you would be competely raw! Go see a Doctor please.
2007-01-09 15:25:05
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answered by goddessbella77 2
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