2007-01-09 14:24:22 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
she should stop having sex. didn't she learn ANYTHING from the first one?? 15 even. She should tell her parents RIGHT AWAY! the second child is EVEN HARDER to handle than the first, especially if they are close together in age. I feel pity for your friend, but that's what she gets. She is going to need all the support she can get and i would suggest she looks into getting her tubes tied so she can't get anymore since she can't learn to keep her legs shut.
2007-01-09 14:29:15 · answer #1 · answered by lynn 5 · 7⤊ 1⤋
Put it like this, if she's not planning on getting an abortion then she has no other choice! She should tell them right away. Don't delay it, then her parents may not trust her anymore. It's apart of being an adult. You HAVE to take responsibilities for your actions! In this case, if she's keeping the child she should definitley tell them. What's the worst they can do, kick her out, put her down, kill her(not likely). But whatever the outcome may be she needs not to worry so much about what they'll think or what they might say and go ahead and get it over with, because in the end they won't love her any less. They'll be dissapoinnted but it's not much they can do once everything has been said and done! I'll tell you one thing your freind sure is strong and I respect her the upmost because the average young minded 15 year old would get an abortion. I just simply wouldn't be able to go through with it! And if your friend just so happens to even think about getting an abortion tell her to listen to Can I Live by Nick Cannon. That song is very encouragable!!! That, the fact that you're a good friend and the hope of a new life being born shall keep her uplifted!
2007-01-10 10:39:28 · answer #2 · answered by Sadie Baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hun i can imagine being scared trust me. I was 17 years old when i found out i was pregnant and I was scared to tell my mom. And i only had two weeks to go until i was 18, lol. But she does need to tell them, not just for her sake but so she can get into the doctors as soon as possible so she can start her prenatal care. IF she doesnt think she can handle two being in school and all tell her there is all kinds of foster parents out there who would love to have a baby but cant. Tell her she is not the first person this has ever h appened too, so not to feel bad and tell her Good Luck I will keep her in prayers
2007-01-09 22:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can either go and tell her parents or go to Planned Parenthood and make some decisions.
One way or the other her parents are going to find out. She should have been put on the pill or some sort of birth control after the first child. This girl needs some education.
2007-01-09 22:31:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend needs to decide if she wants to have this second baby. If yes, she should begin prenatal care as soon as possible and let her parents know sometime before her 2nd trimester.
If she wants to abort the baby she should still let her parents know.
As her friend, try to encourage her to get on birth control after she gets the abortion or gives birth because she will be harming her body in many ways if she continues to keep getting pregnant when she does not want to have a baby.
2007-01-09 23:33:10 · answer #5 · answered by WORLD FAMOUS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is important that she tell her parents that she is pregnant. I know it is going to be very difficult, and she is scared, but the sooner they know the better.
She could always try to find another trusted adult to confide in, such as a minister, adult friend or family member, school counselor, etc. Maybe they could be with her as she breaks the news to her parents. This would provide her moral support.
2007-01-09 22:30:19 · answer #6 · answered by star22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell them, decide on an option, and get on some (or a different form) birth control. I don't care who you are, you need support, especially since at 15 you are still a kid yourself. I would see about getting her into a Planned parenthood or something they have counselors and stuff if her parents aren't exactly nice (not that I would be if my kid was 15 and told me she was pg again). good luck
2007-01-09 22:29:52 · answer #7 · answered by marylynn1984 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hello well another bundle of joy coming in the world well some advice i have is it may be storming right now but what always comes after the storm the sun so remember that and another piece of advice is have you thought of an abortion witch it does not hurt the baby because its not formed yet well u wish you the best of luck and i know u can get through it and i know how hard it is to tell my parents but i got throught it and stay strong
2007-01-09 23:59:45 · answer #8 · answered by ppop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she is going to have to tell her parents sooner or later. What is she going to do? Try to hide it forever?
She has to get good prenatal care, so the only option is to tell her suck it up and tell her parents. Heck, she shouldof learned her lesson the first time around. Its time to be responsible for her actions!
2007-01-09 22:31:59 · answer #9 · answered by cleverness_444 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang! Well, if she's pregnant AGAIN by 15 I'm sure they'll be well prepare for the news already. Time for her to get it over with and tell them......
2007-01-09 23:29:05 · answer #10 · answered by Honesty given here! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋