My husband has a sexual fetish. I'm just wondering how normal this is. My husband like's for me to dress up in a school girl outfit with my long hair in either braids or pig tails prior to sex. He seems to enjoy the student/teacher role play or the adult/bad little girl senario. He seems to get off and be more aroused the younger I look. I'm young to begin with (23) but on top of that I look young, and I mean VERY YOUNG for my age. Dressed in normal casual clothes I could easily pass for a 15 -16 yr old. Dressed up in the school girl outfit he likes with my hair in braids or pigtails I look even younger like maybe 13. Is this normal for my husband to get off and get super aroused on me dressed up to look really young and enjoy the whole "you've been a bad little girl" role play????
2007-01-09 14:19:25 · 23 answers · asked by Luv_My_Baby 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As long as you don't mind role playing with him. I think it is fine. If it bothers you than you should stop. As far as the fact he likes you to look so young does concern me. But, as long as you don't think he is branching out outside of your house and you, I dont think I would worry about it. He may just like the idea of you being submissive and being in a role of authority and maybe has never thought about the fact that you look so young. I would hate to think he is attracted to little girls. I definitely think it is an authority thing.
2007-01-09 14:29:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Considering how popular schoolgirl outfits are for adult roleplay, you have nothing to worry about. Go into an adult video store just before Halloween and look at the costumes. Schoolgirl outfits will just about outnumber all other costumes combined! The Japanese are particularly enthralled with schoolgirl outfits, since they are still regularly worn in that country, and it's not unheard of for girls to save their uniforms and wear them for their mates later in life.
Now, since he likes you to play the naughty girl, does his fantasies include spanking? Teacher/student is one of the most common fantasies for spankophiles (those of us who enjoy consensual spanking between adults) to take part in. It's very rare indeed that I attend a spanking party and not see someone in a schoolgirl skirt. :D
2007-01-11 14:44:08 · answer #2 · answered by baka_otaku30 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal, that's why they make sexy little outfits like that.
If you're concerned that he may molest/harm younger girls, you should talk to him about that. Sounds like he is just playing out a fantasy, which is a pretty common one.
If he needs this every time you have sex, or most of the time, I would say you have a problem.
2007-01-09 14:28:00 · answer #3 · answered by Simply_Renee 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not al that abnormal. Remember it's YOU that he wants, not the neighbor, a girl on the street or at work. Remember that you wont always look 15-16 years old.
I hope the SEX is great.
2007-01-13 12:51:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At lease you no what your husband thinks about when having sex.Most of us women don't no what our husbands are thinking during sex and I'm sure we wouldn't like it.I no I wouldn't like nor enjoy what my husband was thinking.Most men are very weird when it comes to fantasizing.What your husband is doing is a little weird but it's something you have to do in order to keep him home and in your bed. I myself would like to no why men need to fantasize about other women in order to be turned on so they can enjoy having sex with their wives.
2007-01-09 15:03:30 · answer #5 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be wondering if your husband was a pedophile. It's beginning to sound a lot like it.
Yes the school girl thing is common, but with the details you gave I would give it a second pause if it was appropriate.
2007-01-09 14:29:47 · answer #6 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it is normal but I am wondering how old he is. If he is a teacher or something like that I would be worried.
2007-01-09 14:25:23 · answer #7 · answered by Questions&Answers 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I prefer hair that is shoulder length or longer, And also since that men who like ladies are more often then not directly, they like long hair because it looks more feminine, as most men have short hair.
2017-01-16 06:05:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
very long hair is nice but requires servicing and u have to grow it out for a long time
2017-02-25 21:36:38 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. i believe so my hubby does the same thing it was weird at first but then i questioned it and some guys just get off on it a "high sex drive"
2007-01-09 14:27:03 · answer #10 · answered by candi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋