as above, i want her love. how to mak that. as she rejected me when i proposed her first. now there is no contact between us. i have her phone no. but i cant contact her if do so she`ll call her father. i have her address but she told that day that dont come to me again.she told that u read well & get a nice job after that u can do all this. I have got nice job. shall i propose her again? will she accept me? or if she has a boyfriend how to know that? now im mad of her i want her love thats it... please anyone help in this..... please....please
2007-01-09 14:08:23 · 25 answers · asked by Gaju V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know it hurts , and also million more people .... But the truth.. take a deep breath and decide once and for all your relation is not to be , let her go , if you truly love her ??? give her freedom , decide you will love her for ever and move on , I guaranty you there is some one else that will cross your path that is waiting for you , you don't know her yet , but destiny is working on your behalf , leave her along , compose your self , involve your self in hobbies or volunteering , to take your mind off , and give your self a chance to heal .. the pain will go away I promise you !!but it will take a little time and patience , you can not make some one to love you if that person is not into you .. good luck.
2007-01-09 14:21:29 · answer #1 · answered by young old man 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't want anything to do with you then go away. This is aparently the case as she has said she will sick her daddy on you if you call. My advice don't make this girl go through this anymore or you will scare her. She probably doesn't know how to tell you she doesn't want to be with you without making excuses. She will eventually get a restraining order on you to make you go away. Get a new focus for your life. Get a hobby. Date other people, get over her. You can not make someone love you. Sorry dude. Good luck...P.S. if she has a new man that should be a big hint to you..
2007-01-09 22:18:28 · answer #2 · answered by Chrissy #1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she has rejected you completely. If she really loved you I dont think she would have told you to get a better job,or cut all contact from her. Yhea if I were you I would just forget about her. There are plenty of other fish in the sea.
2007-01-09 22:15:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gaju Honey...
You've got to let this go.It's very sad reading what you just wrote here. If all this woman is looking for, is for you to read well and get a good job...she isn't thinking about you as a wonderful man and all your other qualities. I know it's hard to move on, when you obviously love somebody, but why not find somebody else who will really appreciate you, for who you are?
2007-01-09 22:19:55 · answer #4 · answered by Kathleen G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never make anyone love you it takes time and patience.
First dont come on so strong and pester her, this will only drive her away and make her not like you at all.
If you do have a good job and she still won't consider you, thne maybe she is shallow and doesn't deserve your time,
It all depends on your job, and how much your willing to give up to be with her.
2007-01-09 22:15:34 · answer #5 · answered by Purple Haze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant! So stop trying! Love is something a person feels and gives from the heart. It is not forced.
If she declined your proposal, accept it, and move on to find the right woman for you!
2007-01-09 22:12:52 · answer #6 · answered by Heather Rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay as always I am going to keep it VERY real!!! You sound like maybe you may need some help.. I mean If you are being rejected and you can't accept the rejection then maybe you should seek counseling!! Like fast and in a hurry.. I don't mean to hurt your feelings but you have stalker potential!!!!
2007-01-09 22:13:38 · answer #7 · answered by Jazzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you cling to her too much...girls hate that, that is probably why she seem not to be into you...trust me I was like that and it took me a while to get it...the best thing for you to do is move on to someone else and give some space...I know it is hard, i've use to love this girl so much, I couldn't see what i was doing wrong..wuss behavior..don't be like that..she will use you and you will end up more hurt...run now.
2007-01-09 22:18:08 · answer #8 · answered by ravinaznrich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no move on if you loose your job you will have to deal with her father every time she don't get her way in her marriage to you forget that you need a real woman not a daddies girl. she didn't accept you before why now? SHE'S A GOLD DIGGER, MOVE ON !!!!!!!!! You can't make NOBODY I MEAN NOBODY LOVE YOU.
2007-01-09 23:53:43 · answer #9 · answered by deezbrats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men pick but women choose, sorry dude, she was just being polite and very bad at it too. she is not interested. it just happens, attraction is not a button that u can press on people it either happens or dosent.
go to www.askmen.com and ask doc love what you should do. he'll say the same thing
2007-01-09 22:14:40 · answer #10 · answered by Daniel S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋