I kind of like this girl and I'd like to know her more as more than a friend, but I kind of suspect she's lesbian, and ovbiously there'd be no way of being more than friends haha
she has no obvious signs like looking at other girls and stuff, so how do I find out
2007-01-09 13:54:34 · 6 answers · asked by Eduardo h 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Looking at other girls isn't necessarily a sign of being a lesbian but could have more to do with her being insecure about herself. She's comparing herself them.
If you suspect she is a lesbian and you are close friends just talk to her about it. Allow her to have the freedom to be who she is around you, and be trustworthy of that friendship.
You might want more out of this relationship, it may not be of a sexual nature, but you'll definitely gain more out of this relationship by allowing her to be honest with who she is.
2007-01-09 14:02:27 · answer #1 · answered by briardan 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well, there really is no definate way to find out and be 100% on it other than just asking her. and i dont mean come right out and say "are you a lesbian?" cause that could really hurt her feelings. just ask her about her past and ask her if shes ever been with a guy and how it was like and she'll most likely tell you if she into guys or not.
or you can ask her what kind of guys she's into and she'll tell you if she's intretsed in men or not.
i hope i could be of help
2007-01-09 14:01:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is a femme girl, there really is no other way than to ask her. Butch lesbians tend to have sports hats, short hair, guys' clothes, etc. They don't necessarily have all, or even any of those, but they are a good indicator of a butch lesbian.
2007-01-09 13:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by guitarherofairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i can say is talk to her about it! that'll do it!!!
aSK HER FIRST IF SHE IS AGAINST lbgt THEN GO FROM THERE! lol sorry for the big letter's, i didnt realize it was on caps lock! oops! i wasnt trying to be mean! just so you know! LOL
2007-01-09 14:02:11 · answer #4 · answered by Rin_san44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could always just ask her out and go from there
2007-01-09 14:00:13 · answer #5 · answered by pammysue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she can re-build an engine.
2007-01-09 13:58:50 · answer #6 · answered by infidel-louie 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋