SO ME AND MY FIANCE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR LIKE 7 YEARS NOW,WE HAVE TWO KIDS, LIVE TOGETHERF OR 3 YEARS,ARGUE OVER STUPID ****, BUT WE DO LOVE EACH OTHER..MY FAMILY HATES HIM FOR GOD KNOWS WHAT...SHOULD I MARRY HIM IN NOVEMBER???
2007-01-09 13:44:16 · 11 answers · asked by ar87kb04 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Laughing . . . You sound like me. DONT DO IT IF YOU ARE DOING FOR YOUR KIDS. Or, if you are trying to prove everyone else wrong. Otherwise one day you will get to a point after all the "stupid ****" and wonder what in the he** did I get married for. After the first child, his wanting to do right by you and your child should have kicked in. I went through the same thing. If you get married it should be because you both are READY TO FULLY COMMIT.
2007-01-13 13:08:24 · answer #1 · answered by blaak_grl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 7 years and 2 kids time to get married ,if you love each other...
2007-01-09 22:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by slickcut 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marry him, if you think its right. Our opinion should matter the least to you. Everyone argues, its normal. But, if you truley love each other and want to make your relationship recognized by the legal system (marriage). Than go for it.
2007-01-09 21:51:08 · answer #3 · answered by cib0385 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is your decision not your family's. If you love him and think that you can spend the rest of your life with him, go ahead and marry him. Your family will come to accept it eventually.
2007-01-09 22:45:55 · answer #4 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All couples argue every now and then. If your still in love wih him, marry him. But if something is nagging at you follow yout gut istincts. Good luck.
2007-01-09 21:51:18 · answer #5 · answered by Susan P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let's see..... knocks you up twice without bothering to marry you. I can't imagine your family not liking him. Odd.....
If you love him and vice versa, go ahead and get married and make the kid thing more legitimate.
2007-01-09 21:49:22 · answer #6 · answered by Computer Jock 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That's almost as ridiculous and Tom and Katie going through pre-marital counseling AFTER they have a kid together. Hello?
2007-01-09 22:00:25 · answer #7 · answered by lucki female 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why bother? I think 7 years is the rule for common-law marraige. You are probably already married, but just don't know about it. Congratulations!
2007-01-09 21:49:30 · answer #8 · answered by jhartmann21 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Nah make it October.
2007-01-09 23:55:57 · answer #9 · answered by spud 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No..why screw up a messed up situation?
2007-01-09 21:52:40 · answer #10 · answered by P K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋