so I have been seeing this guy for two months (its a gay relationship) --- anyways, he went on a date behind my back.
I called him that night and he turned his cell phone off on me. the next day i asked him why he turned his phone off and he told me it was because he was on a date with another man.
He apologied over and over again to me, and he told me that nothing happened; that they just had dinner.
I am soooooo mad. should i break up with him over this?????? Can i really trust him anymore???
what would you guys do???
thanks
2007-01-09 13:41:25 · 6 answers · asked by nwr1192 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you have only been dating him for two months, you may very well want to break up with him; cheating is cheating, regardless if it is only dinner. Him going on a "date" with another guy implies that he feels he is open to having a diff bf other than u and that is horrid. However, if he promises to stay true and does, than you may want to give him another chance. If it were my bf though, I would just give him the boot because even if I gave him a second chance, the trust in the relationship would be so damaged that I would always be suspicious of him and wouldn't want to deal with that. If you can deal with it, however, you may want to stick with him. It is only a two month relationship though, but ultimately the choice is up to you.
2007-01-09 13:47:26 · answer #1 · answered by guitarherofairy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
personally i think he will cheat again, my ex cheated on his first b/f then cheated on me. So he is gone and never coming back. It isn't fair to you that he cheated. He went behind your back, so now can you trust him. I think that in a relationship it should be built on trust and honesty . I tell my new b/f everything and he also tells me everything. We Are doing really well and I think that is because we can trust each other.your b/f will apologize over and over and still do it again if he gets the chance. I would boot him and say go you can't be trusted, or give him a second chance and say no more mistakes or your gone. Remember you can't change the past , look to the future, and live for today.
2007-01-09 14:02:10 · answer #2 · answered by jumpinjackdw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although you may consider him your boyfriend, does he consider you his boyfriend as well or does he just think that you are dating? Since he apologized about it, I would think that it makes him think that he did something he should not have been doing.
I would ask him what his intentions are, and if he wants to see other people then you should be able to do the same. If you want a commitment to be an exclusive couple, you should both agree. If he told you he was committed to you before this date, you should break up with him.
2007-01-09 13:51:13 · answer #3 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only was he on a date behind your back , he was probably behind his dates back too !
2007-01-09 13:46:20 · answer #4 · answered by 1diputs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes not cause he whent on the date wit a guy cause he cheated on you
2007-01-09 13:45:39 · answer #5 · answered by tierra b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DRAMA
2007-01-09 13:46:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋