well me and my best friend like this guy so as a girl i wanted to know who he likes so i asked him he gave me hints here and there and so after a wile he told me it was linz my other friend and so i was realy up set and so was my best friend cause he had just liked her and she didnt know that well any way i asked linz who she liked and she said him but not so much that she would go out with him so that made me more sad cause i reaaaaaaaly like him and hes on my mind every 5 sec and i hurts cause he has no idea and as im typeing this im crying like a baby and i dont know what to do and just lil thing reminds me of him
plz help!!!!!!!
2007-01-09 13:35:01 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
thankx u guys
2007-01-09 13:41:51 · update #1
Hey,
love hurts and isn't fair or easy. So many times you'll find you feel so strong for somone and they don't even think of you that way even a little. The thing is if you don't tell him how you feel and find out you'll never know and you won't have closure. If he wants to be with you great. If not maybe it's not meant to be. Love is so hard. I'll tell you this you will find somone you love and who loves you back. Everyone has something about them that makes them special and unique. Not everyone likes it but somone will.
2007-01-10 06:41:07 · answer #1 · answered by John S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Older folks her understand you think this is the end of the world, but take a shot at gaining some perspective. If you could fast-forward 20 years you could laugh looking back at this. Actually, if you could fast forward just a few months the same may be true. Relax, there is a God in heaven, and he will show you the right person and get you with that person when the time is right.
2007-01-09 13:49:37 · answer #2 · answered by The Scorpion 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you like 14? You sound like a young teenager who needs to learn a lot about growing. Its just a boy. No big deal! Dry your face and move on. Don't waste your time on a guy who has no interest in you. Or just ask him tell him you think he's hot and you like him. May be he just hasn't look at you like that. Open his eyes. But if he don't. Don't cry over. Grow up
2007-01-09 13:41:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ouch! Sorry, Hun!
Been there a few times myself. Left a few gals there a couple of times as well.
Me thinks all of us go through this many times in our lives. You are not alone.
Guys (Yeah, I am one) can be such twerps at times! However, understand that the right guy is still out here waiting (searching) for you, as you are waiting (searching) for him!
You're young my child
You've Oh so much to learn
And growing up is hard to do
Take your time
Wait your turn!
Your turn will come! Don't grow up too quickly!
The Ol' Sasquatch Ü
2007-01-09 13:49:46 · answer #4 · answered by Ol' Sasquatch 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to keep this is perspective.. in a few weeks or months, this isn't going to matter. It may turn out to be great that you two didn't work out, maybe you'll find someone better or he'll have some secret like he cross-dresses. Bottom line is that fate has things going for you and you have to take everything in stride. Be happy to be independent because one day you'll be married or engaged (like me) and you can't always make decisions alone... go out and party or take a drive or do something alone and be happy with yourself!
2007-01-09 13:41:23 · answer #5 · answered by lish 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alright, Calm down. It's ok. Don't worry about linz. You defintley don't deserve him if he's going to be a jerk like that and realize u like him. I'm really sorry your crying....but....those who make you cry don't deserve your tears. And those who dodeserve your tears would nevermake you cry!
2007-01-09 13:41:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get any individual to name you favor half-hour earlier than you must depart...and if your whole peers are asleep touch a get up provider and purchase an alarm clock the next day..however do attempt to chill out ..the whole lot continuously works out finally..or like every body else is pronouncing a laptop alarm clock
2016-09-03 19:24:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me guess your either in middle school or high school....
Just get over it. boys come and go. You have your whole life ahead of you and your crying over a crush. Suck it up girlfriend, been there done that and when I look back I laugh, its so silly. Or why don't you just tell him that you like him so that atleast you can get that off your chest.
2007-01-09 13:41:23 · answer #8 · answered by cib0385 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, when you meet the "right" guy he will be totally into you. He will also not be able to think of anything but you. Promise yourself that you will wait for HIM. If this guy is not head over heals for you then he is not the one.
I know rejection hurts but you will get through this.
2007-01-09 13:39:19 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it doesn't help right now, but really, there will be others and you will look back on this one day when you've married your Mr. Right and say OMG I can't believe I cried over that guy
2007-01-09 13:42:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋