If the guy is more masculine i have these fantasiez about being told what to do if he is not then i want to tell them...what makes you a bttm or a top?
2007-01-09 13:22:55 · 6 answers · asked by renew69 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It depends on your mood and what you like. I myself am versatile. It all depends on the guy that you are with, and what you feel like doing. Example: If I met a musclebear, I would bttm. If I met a goth twink, I would top. Just my preference, my choice. Don't believe in labels. Do what feels good. Allllllllright!!!!
2007-01-09 13:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by The Gay Argentian Seal 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 100% bottom and have been since I was 14 when my friend Gary asked me for a B J. I told him hell no that I was not gay. However in my mind I wanted to go down on him. Thats when I said that the only way I would do what he asked that I would have to be a real girl or be dressed as one.
To my great suprise and joy he reached under the chair and came up with some of his older sisters clothes she had left behind. I quickly put on the bar,panties,2"heels,nylons and a short dress and was his sercret girl friend for the next three years.
I have been dressing ever since. I think,act,dress and talk as a female. from that day on I have wished prayed and begged to be female. I am now on hormones and plan to somday have SRS so I can finally be the little s__t Wh__e that I know I am.
2007-01-09 14:02:18 · answer #2 · answered by maidinheels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well let me see if can explain top and bottom. top is the person doing the act....bottom is the one receiving the act. so depends on weather you like to give or receive, or both in which case you would be versatile. You can be a top or bottom and tell someone how or what to do or be told what to do that doesn't make you top or bottom
2007-01-09 13:37:01 · answer #3 · answered by jumpinjackdw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably a switch (aka you can prefer either, depending on the guy you are with). Not everyone is 100% top or bottom.
2007-01-09 13:26:30 · answer #4 · answered by guitarherofairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether you like being told what to do or not makes you submissive or dominant.
Top/bottom is a different matter.
If you like to be on the "receiving" end during the sex, you're bottom. If you like to "give", you're top. If you like both, you're versatile. It's that simple :-)
2007-01-10 00:09:03 · answer #5 · answered by Bart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just one more label to have to deal with
love yourself no matter what
2007-01-09 13:36:22 · answer #6 · answered by Josephus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋