i am 12. i have this friend, who i was realy good friends with in the beginning of the year. now, she doesnt trust me and i want to b her friend. i tried everything. i IMed her a million srrys and she keeps blocking me. i called her and she put me on a ringbak tone. she says she doesnt trust me anymore and i should stop trying. im afraid im becoming annoying now and shes also trying to make others hate me too. shes being very insensitive and i told her that.
please help me.
thank you so much
2007-01-09 13:00:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
a true friend would forginve you after those a million srry's, and if she is trying to make others u, she is not a rlly good friend because good friends are understanding
2007-01-09 13:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by Alexander the Great 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
You don't mention why you think your friend lost her trust in you. Since you have apologized repeatedly and she continues to reject you, I would focus my energies on making new friends, rather than focusing on a friendship that appears to be at this time damaged. Give her the space she needs, say nothing bad about her and focus on becoming a good person with good values and morals, so she will have nothing bad to say about you. When one's reputation is damaged, it can take awhile to get others to trust and look up to you again.
It is hard to lose a friend who you cared about deeply, but there are always new friends to make who can become even better friends than the ones you lose.
In life we make and lose and out-grow friends and there will be many more friends for you that will come into your life. Keep an open mind, an open heart, a friendly smile and don't get discouraged because of this girls' unwillingness to forgive you. The greatest damage that unforgiveness and holding grudges causes is to the person that is unforgiving and holding the grudge. Pray for her, and with time, I hope your friendship with her will heal. But don't let her rejection of you at this time keep you from maintaining a positive attitude and keeping your spirits up for life is way too short.
God Bless--
2007-01-09 13:09:10 · answer #2 · answered by Ivy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are able to't sleep or devour because you're feeling accountable. You broke your moms believe. both you've realized your lesson or you've not, it really is as a lot as you to be sure. as long as you nonetheless tell the reality & stay your life the right way you'll earn her believe lower back. it truly is going to take a even as yet giive her some days to get over the preliminary anger and betrayal. She loves you & will forgive you.
2016-12-28 13:51:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to sound mean when I say this cuz I know how it feels. But maybe they aren't very good friends to begin with and all you can do is give them space and be nice to them. Maybe even try to find out why they don't trust you and see how you might be able to fix it.
2007-01-09 13:08:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the problem and why is itd that she does'ntd trust you maybe you opened your mouth to soon. Maybe you told someone something they told you not to tell. We must learn to put our trust in the Master's hands and not trust in man. You have got to ask God to keep your tongue from speaking guile.You'll be alright when you learn to keep your mouth shut.
2007-01-09 13:09:52 · answer #5 · answered by sista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to make anyone trust you. Mistrust of anybody can't demean you. It's the other person's problem, not yours. Go ahead, lead your own life. No one's indispensable, you'll learn as you move on in life.
2007-01-09 13:05:58 · answer #6 · answered by Sabya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg that is so sad why would she want to do that what a ***** you need to talk to her face to face if not forget it and move on you'll find a new friend sooner or later but for now act like you dont care and your fine without her mabey she'll come back to you...if not you can be my friend good luck sweetie
2007-01-09 13:07:56 · answer #7 · answered by ToBeautifulToDie/ToCrazyToLive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make her be your friend. Accept her decision and move on. Find new friends.
2007-01-09 13:04:57 · answer #8 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the first place what did u do to her.. once you hurt ur best friend theyre aint no turning back...
2007-01-09 13:14:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you done nothing to annoy her i dont understand why she doesnt you just have to persevre with her
2007-01-09 13:05:16 · answer #10 · answered by cindy d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋