Two Adults...One being 28, and the other is 42?
2007-01-09 12:58:07 · 32 answers · asked by white trash 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No problem, as long as it's NOT a problem to the two of you! He wins ......he gets beauty, and youth. You win....you get maturity, and responsibility. Win-Win!
2007-01-09 13:04:54 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you are old enough to know what you want. The age difference should be irrelevant now. You should, however, consider that when 42 turnw 62, 28 will be 48.
2007-01-09 13:01:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
None at all. But you must be ready for all its consequences. E.g. one gets old faster - when one is at the prime of his / her youth, the other is becoming old; the tastes of each age group vary also, which can pose a major problem after the initial infatuation wears off. However, if you are sure it can be carried through - go ahead. There is no problem otherwise.
2007-01-09 13:02:32 · answer #3 · answered by Sabya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both are adults so I don't see a problem with it. As you get older age is not as much a factor in relationships as when you were younger. Maturity is the key.
2007-01-09 13:02:58 · answer #4 · answered by Tall Order 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a problem as long as the two adults are happy.
2007-01-09 13:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the maturity level of both adults. You need to be on the same page with each others feelings and expectations of your relationship.
2007-01-09 13:01:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Fairly od...!!!
Well, it could work if you are ready for peolple to treat you as his mother, aunt or even grandma. Also you need to be ready to the cruelty of his younger friends, and family.
At social events, get ready for him to want to mingle, hang out or dance with the young ones. And financially, to constantly ask you for money or expect you to pay for him.
Be ready to think most of the time if he is having an afair with someone or not. And for him to lie to you and laugh at you with others.
You probably will be the older one always at gatherings, and it will be discuss without any finess in between them.
Questions,... Does he has a job?- Does he has his own place?- Does he has kids or an ex-wife?- Who does he live's with?- Does he has any addicttions?- Is he violent?- How well do you know him?- Has he being in jail?- What for?- Is that his real name/last name? Do you know any member of his fa.?
Oh well, what I'm trying to tell you is that if there is a little voice inside of you telling you to be careful, YOU SHOULD BE!!!
And you and me know, that if you were daring enough to ask us, for advise, is because you heard that little voice; but you would like to silence it by our responses!!! SORRY I want you to hear it loud and clear, for your own good!!!
I know you know what to do!!! Do not get into a relationship, where you know you will be a victim!!! You are NOT a kid any more, but we all need to learn and grow up!!! Don't we???
Relax, think the pros and cons of this situation. It is very easy to get in, but boy; to get OUT is a struggle!!!! THINK, THINK!!!!
What do you have to loose????? Your privacy, peace of mind, money, selfesteem, time and pride.
I hope I was of some help. I'm speaking from the heart. You deserve to be happy but with someone that can make you happy. NOT for one day or a week, but for a long time!!!
Don't you think???
GOOD LUCK GOD BLESS YOU & HAPPY LIFE
ALLIV Z
2007-01-09 13:46:47 · answer #7 · answered by Alliv Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i have a friend who was 42 and she was 27 and they got marryed but the only problem is he takes care of the money and is treating her like a kid. and not giveing her fair share of the money.
2007-01-09 13:07:10 · answer #8 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is only a problem if you feel like it's a problem. Some people are completely okay with dating people outside of their age group, and some people aren't. You just have to figure out which school of thought you belong to. :)
Best of luck!
2007-01-09 13:03:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not. I am married to a man 20 years my senior for 10 years. We have 2 wonderful children. He has been my number one fan and always supports my ambitions. A lot has to do with his maturity and self-assurance. Love is hard to find and any age so it you have it ....go for it.
2007-01-09 13:12:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 years is a big age difference, but only time will tell.Two adults that love each other is all that really matters.
2007-01-09 13:05:22 · answer #11 · answered by Ms Lety 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋