when you loose your vergenety do it hurt REALLY bad or is it like a little pinch because i don't know and i have been wondering but you can't just go up to people and just ask that is embarassing
2007-01-09 12:45:44 · 36 answers · asked by zaniyah_russell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if you can't spell virginity maybe you shouldnt be having sex.
2007-01-09 12:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by nothankyou 5 · 10⤊ 4⤋
It really depends on the person. For me It was like nothing. It didnt really last long enough to be anything lol. I did bleed a little bit though. But again everyone is different. You may bleed a little or alot or you may not bleed at all. It may hurt a little. Its not like a pinch like someone pinched your arm. Its a different feeling. When it does finally happen Just be protected. I dont want to sound like your mom but Dont just go out and do it because all of your friends are. Do it when your ready. Dont be scared. Remember this if your scared your not ready. I hope this helps out a little bit. Dont rush into anything.
2007-01-09 12:53:54 · answer #2 · answered by Heather 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you plan on losing your virginity, you need to make sure that the person you're with is someone who you trust completely and respects you and your boundries. If you're with a person who you know would never hurt you, losing your virginity won't hurt either. Try taking small steps toward sex before you decide to give away your virginity. I'm not going to get into details, but if you want more detailed suggestions my e-mail address is crystal_blue1318@yahoo.com. If you're AT ALL afraid or nervous, don't do it. you'll regret it. And the more minor things that you do in progression towards having sex will allow you to discover just what "feels good" to you personally.
If your body is ready for sex, you'll feel urges to do it. I don't think you should be having sex if you're not lustful. When you want it really badly and you have some lubricated condums and you're with someone kind who understands that this is your first time and has promised to be gentle with you, you're ready. Just please use a condum every time, and lubricant makes the first few times easier. You may be sore and/or tired afterward, but if the time and circumstances are right the sex itself won't hurt. AS LONG AS YOU WANT IT! Think this through carefully, you don't get a second chance if you loose your virginity too soon.
I hope I've given you some good advise.
2007-01-09 12:58:09 · answer #3 · answered by Carolinii 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Thats' the truth!! You sound too young. Its' not what its' all cracked up to be anyway...UNTIL you are older and more mature! THEN and then only does it get REALLY good. ANyone else is lying... And it does hurt. However some people are different. Some ladies bleed a lot....some bleed a little. Some don't bleed at all. Some people have a high tolerance for pain some ...some might not hurt at all (never new of anyone like that)...then take into consideration the physical anatomy of the girl...we're all different down there. Thats like during birth when some woman tear the skin from it stretching to accomodate the babies head....and some woman don't tear at all. And before you do have sex...take THAT into consideration...it might not just be the mans' head going in and out of your vagina...sex leads to babies heads coming out too!!!
2007-01-09 12:56:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
it all depends on how nervous you are and how large his penis is. Some people experience no pain whatsoever. your hymen generally doesn't have enough nerve endings in it in order for it to hurt when you "pop" the "cherry".
On the other hand, some women have experienced a mild stinging with a little blood. Nothing bad. :) Just make sure that you REALLY want to go through with it. Your virginity is a precious thing. Once it's gone, it's gone. Good luck!
2007-01-09 12:50:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
yes it hurts, not really really bad I wouldnt say, but it isnt a little pinch either, unless of course the guy has only "a little pinch" lol but seriously if your old enough and ready for sex, expect it to hurt and I suggest some lubrication to cut back a little on the pain.
2007-01-09 12:49:21 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♫♥ Crystal ♥♫♥ 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it hurts.
Hopefully before you consent to giving this gift to a special man you have considered contraceptives.
If your man knows that it is your first time, hopefully he will be a gentleman and make it a good experience for both of you.
Good luck.
2007-01-09 12:51:43 · answer #7 · answered by Future 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
From your spelling and grammar I would say that you are way too young to be thinking about this in the first place.
Just worry about school right now, and by the time you are mature enough for sex I'm sure you will have long since learned the answer to your question.
2007-01-09 12:51:56 · answer #8 · answered by EQ 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Speaking for myself, YES! I actually cried (and I was nearly 26 years old during my first time...this was just last summer...my bf/fiance and I waited 5 years into our relationship which was worth it). It gets better though. If it sucks at first, you're normal. I wish someone told me it would hurt because even at that age I was surprised to find that it did.
2007-01-09 13:12:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It depends on how comfortable you are in the situation...how wet you are....and how gentle your partner is. THere are a lot of variables, in other words, that you can control. My first time didn't hurt per se, it was only midly and momentarily uncomfortable.
2007-01-09 12:50:20 · answer #10 · answered by A Total Franny 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think you are talking about virginity. And "Does it hurt really bad?".
But anyways, yes, you will feel something but it is worth it in the long run as long as you use protection!
Everything that is worth while hurts at first.
2007-01-09 12:49:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋