spouse hides his bill/phone what would u think
2007-01-09 12:23:41 · 31 answers · asked by babe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well I would be very hurt and angry and very tempted to call her and ask some questions. If he hides his phone bill there is something fishy going on that you need to look into. If hes cheating on you let him go because you deserve better than that. When I was younger I had a boyfriend who cheated on me with a girl I knew and I called her up and said my boyfriend had already admitted to it so she may as well come clean and she did, the part about my boyfriend admitting to it was a lie but it was an easy way to find out the truth. In your case if you feel brave enough to go that route maybe you could say that he admitted he was cheating and you wanted to know if it was with the woman whose number you had found and if she knew about you or something to that effect. Whatever happen good luck.
2007-01-09 12:29:51 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♫♥ Crystal ♥♫♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's hiding the phone bill he's hiding it for a reason and not just because its high. If you can call her do it, I sure would and let her know he is married she may not know this. This is how I found out a guy I was dating was married she called to see who I was. Man was I ever shocked he was married I never suspected it since he'd stay at my place for days at a time and we were always out in public together.
2007-01-09 12:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a problem between you and your spouse, not you and her. You should address the problem with him, and let him take care of her.
Make it clear to your spouse that you are not willing to accept this kind of behaviour.
Be strong, be firm, don't be weak on this subject. You will go through some serious trials, and this will either make your relationship stronger and better or break. You must be willing to accept the outcome no matter how much it will hurt you.
Consider profesional therapy.
2007-01-09 12:32:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 11:43:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you find out? The fact he's hiding his bill would give you reason to worry. Talk to an attorney and a couples' counselor, so you have a backup plan if he is cheating. Of course, it could be something irrelevant - it could be a doctor who's a woman, it could be settling a family member's estate, or he could have an illegitimate child.
2007-01-09 12:29:07 · answer #5 · answered by halie_blue 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he has been doing more than talking with her, i would confront him about it, he is the one who makes the choices. i wouldn't let it go even if he abandoned me i would confront him about this. there is some reason why he is hiding his cell bill, why not go on line and see if u can access his bill, and get the info that way, and maybe u need to call her and find out just how serious the relationship is between them.
2007-01-09 12:30:30 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I confronted my spouse. It is possible that the other woman doesn't even know about you. Ask your spouse why he is calling someone else and find out why.It may be just a friend that he is talking to.or a cousin. Start with him.And tell him it bothers you.
2007-01-09 12:31:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call and find out who she is and do a little research first before I confront him.
I have been married for almost 2 years.
I feel for you seriously!!!
Do what you feel is right just remember you have control over how someone treats you, and you put up with what you allow.
Good luck to you!
2007-01-09 12:36:23 · answer #8 · answered by princesandy2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's sex and then there's the insinuation of sex... sometimes he'll hide the latter from you because he'd assume you'd wrongly think that this girl that he's become friends with was his girlfriend. That disclaimer out of the way, he's probably sleeping with her. You should find the truth.
2007-01-09 13:05:14 · answer #9 · answered by Ketel One Up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Curiosity killed the cat right;
Well satisfaction brought him back!
What are you waiting for I would've been on the phone finding answers but would not reveal my identity unless neccersary or reasonable, if he is being secretive then enquire with the same way.
2007-01-09 12:36:37 · answer #10 · answered by Mosez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋