the most important thing i look for in the girl is her personality,am not sayin the outsider look is not important but i think if the girl has good personality it could reflex with her outsider beauty..
please tell ur opnion with a reasons
2007-01-09 12:23:24 · 9 answers · asked by Tara 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
First and foremost I look to see what kind of person she is. I want someone with goals, drive, and a decent lifestyle. Trailor Trash need not apply, etc. I also insist that she have at LEAST a bachelor's degree, and preferrably a graduate degree. Intelligence is a must. Sense of humor is also important. I do care about looks as well. I prefer a more feminine girl. If I wanted a guy, I'd date a guy.... They don't have to be lipstick, just not butch-looking. (Butch attitude is fine.)
2007-01-09 12:34:35 · answer #1 · answered by cyanne2ak 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
females like a guy who's different from the various different adult males. someone who stands proud and is not afraid to be themselves. i love it, it really is what makes the guy horny because he's positive in himself. females don't love insecure or jealous adult males, that's a turn off. you'd be the cutest element, yet when you're like that, the creation will be neglected. someone who's honest about each and everything and who does not lie lots. the only element a guy can do to make me flow loopy for him is to do the sweetest issues for me without me practise or telling him at the same time as or the thanks to do it, he already is acquainted with, oh and cooking for me.
2016-12-02 01:46:23 · answer #2 · answered by abigail 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I'm answering a different question. I'm a gay man, so my opinion on what's attractive in lesbians, although I hang out with quite a few. Anyway. I wear a pink triangle necklace on my neck, It's the only amount of pride-wear I really have, but I needed some, because I'm pretty straight acting. A lot of my friends wear rainbow gear (bracelets, earrings, etc.) Also, some of my friends wear shirts that they get from the men's side, that say things like, "my girlfriend can beat up your girlfriend" and things like that. Straight people just think it's funny, but the community knows it's a message. For cool pride-wear go to loveandpride.com. That's where I get mine, and it's classy, too.
2007-01-09 17:42:02 · answer #3 · answered by elija jene o 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Intelligence and humor. Without those, a girl can be nice, but just not the kind of person I can imagine living my life with. I don't want depressed people, or those who are always serious, and I certainly don't want ditzes who don't like to exercise their brains.
Same thing I look for in guys, and in friends of any sex.
2007-01-09 14:27:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I definitely look to see if they are cocky or not...you know how lesbians can be. Next I see if they are just chill and nice...to me AND others (but not TOO nice to others) and definitely, DEFINITELY if they are funny. It's a big plus to me, because I gotta laugh. Being educated is also very good...and I appreciate good grammar and music taste.
2007-01-09 12:29:59 · answer #5 · answered by hermosa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sense of humor, intelligence, consciousness, adventurousness, looks, kindness, confidence, pretty much the whole package.
2007-01-09 12:36:39 · answer #6 · answered by eschampion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality - attitude - comfort within her own skin. Hey - if you are looking may I suggest this site? www.chick2chick.com
Best of luck !!!
2007-01-09 12:44:08 · answer #7 · answered by Ms L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a Lesbian trapped in a male body, I look for the way they eat, the way they speak and thier feet. Please ask why.
2007-01-09 12:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
i look for big b o o b s and a juicy p u z z y
2007-01-09 13:22:27 · answer #9 · answered by Jazzycutiepie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋