my best friend just does not call me on the telephone?

Question

if u hav a best friend and every time u 2 talk on the telephone u r always the one to call her, how would u feel?we been best friends for about 2 years now and mayb she called me like 4 times within this period and i call her frequently as she wishes me to call her but never wants to call me. i dont tell her it hurts me cuz im shy but should i feel offended and hurt and not cared about and forgotten? every time i call her she is relaxing like watching a movie or so so she has extra time and she lives with her parents and they like me. i went to visit her home a few times cuz we live far i understand that she has never visited me before but ill i wonder is if it is right and normal for her not to call me. her parents like me and all and she calls some of her other friends but why wont she call me?she is a good girl and all and she means a lot to me but why do i feel so pushed away? am i wrong to feel hurt?

Answer 1

Hey, im a teen and i have not had this happen to me but i think you should just casually talk bout it 2 her. Tell her that you feel a little pushed away, but dont make it really dramatic cuz then she might take it the wrong way and it could ruin your friendship. So just casually tell her like you know i'm sorta feeling a lil left out because you dont call me as much as everyone else. Or try asking her if she can do 3-way or 4-way where all of you can talk together at the same time.