im 18
hes about to be 19
ive been going out with my bf for 3 years
and everything has been great
but today he got mad at me cuz he saw me talking
to one of my guy friends
but i meen i wasnt flirting with my friend or anything
but he still got mad
and i was like why dont u want me to talk to him
and he was like
"i dont like u talking to him"
but he was soo mad about it
he had never acted this way
im confused
i dont get it
2007-01-09 12:17:11 · 18 answers · asked by MoNiCa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Jealousy is powerful... my advice to you is to becareful. You are both young and he seems to be immature border line controlling. If he is acting like this now about 1 guy .... what about the next innocent one??? This guy or any guy is not going to be the last guy you talk to is he? Maybe he just doesn't like that particular guy for his own reason...you didn't say. Talk to him..open and honestly...before he gets out of control.
2007-01-09 12:25:12 · answer #1 · answered by Curious Girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off you both are way too young to be dating for so long and no other experiences..
He is not your keeper! He does not own you! and he can not tell you who to speak with or not as long as you are just being friends. You need to let him know this.. he does not support you or take care of you financially.. where does he get off that he has a say over you!
What a fool he is!....
I have to agree with one of your entries.. I believe he is projecting and has been unfaithful to you! That is what you are witnessing!
2007-01-09 20:26:56 · answer #2 · answered by Esther J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is jealous of course but They only act this way if they also f^^ked around on you and feel insecure about them-selves and for what they did behind your back it sounds that way too me right now other wise he wouldn't have acted this way.If you knew this other friend before you met this man of yours it isn't worth losing your friend ditch the man and on with the next.Plenty out there.
2007-01-09 20:24:51 · answer #3 · answered by tino 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk to other guys. The only reason a guy wants to be friends with a girl is to get with her. Your BF knows that and thats why he is mad. Don't create trust issues for him as you will ruin your relationship.
2007-01-09 20:22:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is jealous, posessive, and he doesn't trust you, and he is starting to show you what your life will be like if you stay with him. My woman can talk to any man she wants to - because I trust her.
You should tell him that if he doesn't back off and trust you that you will leave him. This will only get worse - I guarantee it.
FP
2007-01-09 20:22:42 · answer #5 · answered by F. Perdurabo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like fear and insecurity to me. For some reason he's afraid of losing you to someone else and he doesn't know what to do about it. You need to find some way to assure him that he has nothing to worry about and that no one could take his place, but that you still enjoy the (platonic) friendship of other guys in your life.
2007-01-09 20:27:14 · answer #6 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your boyfriend sounds controling,just remember your not married he does not own you,he owns himself.listening to him only gives him the upper hand on you,continue on talking to whom you please if he gets out of control with his anger than you don't want to be with that person,show him your incontrol of yourself and he needs to get over it.let him know youv'e given him no reason to carry on like that and he's being very imature ,if he doen't take no for an answer you need to dump his butt.
don't let any guy tell you who to talk to and who not to.
2007-01-09 20:31:37 · answer #7 · answered by smiley 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sometimes get jealous for not reason, if you talk to this guy friend a lot he will do something really bad. every guy does this when their girlfriend has guy friends specially for the ones that don't want to loose her.
2007-01-09 20:23:04 · answer #8 · answered by kevinmelendez2004 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well he could be going through the jealous stage or he doesnt like that person it have to be something wrong wit the other person though i think
2007-01-09 20:24:53 · answer #9 · answered by craigs wifey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Males are or this male seems 2 be very jealous,but if he loves you n trust u then thier shouldn't be a problem.
2007-01-09 20:26:57 · answer #10 · answered by Carlos W 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋