okay my bf wants to have sex with me... i told him we could....i'm a virgin he's not but i know his history and stuff and he's been tested. i told him we had to use a condom (i'm not on the pill or anything) and hes like i want to enter you first for a second to feel you and then i will pull out and put one on....is there any way i could get pregnant that way? like he has to ejaculate in me for me to get pregnant? also i obviously don't feel comfortable with this so any advice on how to tell him that i want to be fully protected without him getting mad?
2007-01-09 12:07:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If he won't agree to wear protection at your wish then he's not worth having as your boyfriend.
As for telling him, simply tell him the truth, if he won't accept it then you should tell him that its unacceptable and end it.
2007-01-09 12:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by Cleo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you could possibly still get pregnant. Precum has sperm in it too and when he's aroused it will be there and a little will get inside of you even if it's only in you for a couple seconds. If you know he is std free and would let him be with you without a condom, at least get on some form of birth control. I recommend the Depo Provera shot. Sometimes it can take close to a year to get pregnant after getting off of it. So, it was something I trusted until I wanted to start having kids. Good luck, and stay safe.
2007-01-09 12:23:33 · answer #2 · answered by missy146833 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! There is always a chance you can get pregnant from having unprotected sex!
If you are not comfortable having sex without a condom, DON'T DO IT!!!
Don't worry about making him mad, worry about protecting yourself. Be honest with him and tell him you're not ok with that. Make him wear a condom so you can better enjoy your first time.
2007-01-09 12:17:59 · answer #3 · answered by twelvegrains4 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes you can get pregnant!
And you can get pregnant with a condom and it doesn't have to break. One thing I know about people and sex - it feels much better without a condom - but it isn't worth the gamble.
And he may try to wear you down on this - but be prepared, if a baby is made he will be gone!
2007-01-09 12:18:50 · answer #4 · answered by happy_southernlady 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't do that at all. It's hard to stop especially in the "moment" I would suggest for you to go and get birth control before you have sex. Condoms can break, come off etc. Make him wear a condom and if he can't respect that, then he's not worth having sex with, especially for your first time.
2007-01-09 12:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by melashell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For Roman Catholics, sex outdoors marriage is a sin. The Church also disapproves of any non-organic start-administration approach. contained when it comes to the condom, that's a sin, even outdoors marriage and for VD prevention.
2016-12-02 01:44:23 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is. Even though I understand why he doesn't wanna use the condom if he disrespects you ike that I (Well... assuming I was female which I'm not and btw I'm completely and totaly straight) wouldn't pick him as your 1st. Your first you will remember forever.
Plus, once the action starts it's easy to forget that you should put a condom on. Trust me on this.
2007-01-09 12:18:23 · answer #7 · answered by Crossroads Keeper 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can get pregnant from precum, so dont have sex without a condom at all.
you should explain to him that you dont feel comfortable with it. If he doesnt listen to you or gets angry, then you are obviously not in a committed loving relationship and should not be having sex anyway.
2007-01-09 12:18:16 · answer #8 · answered by Minerva 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant get pregnant tat way but then again anything is possible, u need to talk to him and tell he how u feel if he doesnt understand maybe its time to find someone who does. u could also go to the doctor and go on the pill to be on the safe side.......plus i dont no ur age so if ur under 16yrs old dont have sex coz it is legel by law
2007-01-09 12:16:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look pre-ejaculation liquid contains 1000's of sperms wich is enough to get pregnant. anyway as far as your bf is concerned try to solve this in a calm and peaceful manner. explain your fears to him i am sure he will understand. have fun ;)
2007-01-09 12:17:40 · answer #10 · answered by sweetxxbitter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋