I viewed my best friend as a role model and a great decent person but she's 15 years old and 3 days ago she told me she performed oral sex. I was extremely disappointed then but then tonight she tells me she just had sex with a guy and now she's afraid she might be pregnant because there was no condom. A few days ago after she performed oral sex the guy ignored her for awhile and then she just had sex with him and he ignored her afterwards. I want to be a good friend and be there for her but part of me is just like haha thats what you get. How could you be so stupid to go back to him after he ignored you the first time and he's not even her boyfriend. I worry about her future. Is it okay for me to be somewhat disappointed with her?
2007-01-09 12:01:13 · 9 answers · asked by DisneyLover 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Most definately, but in this case i would be more like angry at her. Not really disappointed but angry.
2007-01-09 12:05:51 · answer #1 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is normal to be disappointed in your friend. I would be too. Talk to her about the risks of HIV and STDS and preganancy! Tell her you want more for her and to save sex for marriage. If she continues to act like this I would encourage you not to hang out with her. People may think you are the same and you will get a bad name that u do not deserve. Try talking to her and good luck!
2007-01-09 12:06:21 · answer #2 · answered by chemky1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-28 13:43:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to be disappointed, but it's not okay to not be a friend to her. She needs someone to help her - not someone to judge her. Tell her your feelings and why her behavior concerns you (because it is unsafe, std's, etc.) You guys are certainly to young to be having sex, so you might wanna help her find someone to talk to. Maybe there are problems at home or something.
2007-01-09 12:07:01 · answer #4 · answered by imadancr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's human to be disappointed with her. But you should be understanding as well.
2007-01-09 12:06:46 · answer #5 · answered by Chiquita B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be diappointed but remember she is a person and makes mistakes. Be there for her and learn from her mistakes and others too.
2007-01-09 12:06:12 · answer #6 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should still stick by ur friends side because that's what friends are for but you can still have your own opinion about what she did wrong
2007-01-09 12:11:28 · answer #7 · answered by Janelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's way to young to be do-in' dudes. my friends disappoint me sometimes, get use to it
2007-01-09 12:06:53 · answer #8 · answered by stinkypinky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, but you are not her conscience or moral leader...
2007-01-09 12:05:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋