Young sexy guys really turns me on.I have been fighting this feeling because I don't want to be label gay. What should I do?Give in or ignore that feeling.These young guys are also attracted to me but I push them away.What should I do?
2007-01-09 11:56:10 · 33 answers · asked by BLESSED 4 in Health ➔ Men's Health
keep fighting the good fight and leave the boys alone. Even up to the grave... leave the boys alone. I know it's politically correct for the boys to play with the boys and let the girls sleep with the girls but that is all it is. Politically correct; that does not make it correct. What is correct is that you control your lusts. Do not allow your lusts control you.
If you are looking for someone to condone your wants then I'm wasting my time. Others on the site will do that for you. If you are looking for a good life then go ahead love the men, you don't have to go to bed with them to love. You don't have to engage in a sexual act to be loved or love, to be accepted or rejected. You just have to do what is right.
Keep pushing the boys away and go find a good woman who will be with you.
or not. the decision is yours.....accept what is right or reject it.
2007-01-09 12:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by the old dog 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I feel that you should hang out with a guy you suspect you are attracted to, but in a casual, public place. If after hanging around together for a while you still feel a sexual attraction for this person, then it is possible you might be gay. You don't have to make out or anything, in fact, it would be better if you didn't. That way you could do the same thing with all the ones you have feelings for, without any of you getting hurt. If after you have "dated" these guys you still feel the same, then you might consider starting a relationship with one of them. As with any relationship, it must be based on friendship first or it will not last and PLEASE use protection, for both of your sakes! By the way, I am a straight female with lots of gay friends and there is alot less "labeling" than you think. Good Luck and I hope you find happiness.
2007-01-09 12:06:41 · answer #2 · answered by Mona M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is a choice and how you want to live it is a choice.
You can choose not to live a gay lifestyle or give into your fantasies. Reality bites maybe holding onto the fantasy will be more satisfying than living a life you are uncomfortable in.
Why are you attracted to young men??????
before you act try to answer that question.............
Maybe you are envious of their youth,looks hard bodies and you want to processes that rather than have an intimate relationship.
Have you watched Broke Back Mt?????????
If I were you I'd think long and hard before I experiment down a road that can have life changing consequences............
You were given will power and freedom of choice for a reason.
You may feel you can't help feeling one way or another but you can decide how you will act on those thoughts and feelings.......
life is about choices..................the choice is ultimately yours
But you have to live with the consequences!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-09 12:12:38 · answer #3 · answered by Susan C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, what people think does NOT matter. You being Happy with yourself and who you are with is the MOST important. If you are attracted to a guy, then go ahead and try it. That is the ONLY way that you will be able to tell if you are gay or not bro. If you are gay, that is ok... this is 2007 you know. And for the small minded people out there, if you got an issue with gay people, that is YOUR OWN PROBLEM.
Go for it dawg.
2007-01-09 17:21:13 · answer #4 · answered by JON B the EMT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all how old are you? lol. if you are a teen then young hot guys are probably kindergardeners. In wich case.. you will be put away for a bit so zipp up ure yapper and keep to ureself. if you are older than it depends do you have children. are you married? I for one would probably go crazy if i found out my dad was gay so just keep quiet. but to be fair. i am 14."virgin", no recent girlfriends and i am a horndog. i admitt this. I am also very shy. my dad has recently asked me if im gay. I know im not gay, i dont think guys are attractive at all. women i stare at every day.. sorry ladies lol. but the fact is. i dont let their opinion get to me,. so come out the closet and spread the word!
2007-01-09 12:17:36 · answer #5 · answered by seamorebuts444 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Labels are not important like someone for who they are not their body parts, skin color, label, or anything else. Their's nothing wrong with a guy liking a guy or a girl liking a girl. Go for it you have one life live it YOUR way not by the way everyone else tells you to live it. Hope whatever you chose is really what you want. Your not going to hell or anything you didn't commit a sin, and most importantly "THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU!" Don't listen to people who say that. Some of my best friends (who are guys) like guys and they are some of the coolest guys around.
2007-01-09 12:05:48 · answer #6 · answered by beautifulxperfectxlie 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depending on how old you are -Go & find out - hook up with a guy - but remember have safe sex & roll on a condom.
Look if you don't like having sex with a man then at least you know otherwise you'll be beating yourself up and wondering. In life you only regret what you don't do.
If i had've been attracted to males that's what I would've done. Actually I knew a guy who did & decided he didn't like it afterall as he didn't like recieving. He felt guilty & confided in me. I told him to forget it and at least he knows now. Last I heard he got engaged to a woman.
2007-01-09 14:45:03 · answer #7 · answered by Chris L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find them attractive, then you should try it! Don't listen to people saying you are going to hell, because I believe that is a bunch of bologna.
The bible was written by man and could have been changed according to what they thought was right or wrong.
Do what you want!!!!! Have fun, live life, and treat others how you would like to be treated!
2007-01-09 12:01:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I really hope you have a best friend to talk to because it does sound to me that your gay and there is nothing wrong with it.
Alot of poeple are very tough on gays so be careful if you pursue your attractions. If your really afraid go and see a counsellor and talk to one about it. Whatever your choice is be proud of yourself and Good luck
2007-01-09 12:02:45 · answer #9 · answered by Pearl N 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I had the same feelings and gave in i enjoyed them and i still like women very much so if you have them try it if you like it kool if you dont at least youll know and not go crazy wondering
2007-01-09 13:09:39 · answer #10 · answered by sckenpo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋