i dont get it. i know these girls who are always looking at this one girl in our class and talk about her. they don't do anything to the girl..they act nice when they're talking to her..but they make fun of her behind her back. why do some girls do this? i think the girl is nice and smart. she has a lot of guy friends. personally i think they're jealous but i dont think those girls like her guy friends so i dont know. is that enough for girls to start hating on other girls?
2007-01-09 11:53:39 · 6 answers · asked by cookie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This actually happened to me as an adult. Some of my so called coworkers,didn't like the way i was doing my job(my supervisors were fine w/ me tho).Almost had a breakdown over this.I Finally came to the realization that these ppl are jealous cuz I do a really good job,and they aren't as well liked as I am. I know this sounds conceited,its not meant to, but when adults are being 2 faced....its just a sad,sad, world.
2007-01-09 15:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not enough,and you are totally right,they are ahters.I remember in the fifth grade some other girls hated off of me.I let them hate,because I knew I had more wisdom then they did,they were just fools.And I remember ma mamma used ot tell me other girls used to hate on her too,and she grew up to be successful,and all those other girls were either crackheads,broke,or dead.Thats the saying everything happens for a reason comes in.I would stand up for her,and keep it real and straight up with those girls,and punk them,to reveal the straight fools they are.Like I said stand up for her,I know she would LOVE that.
2007-01-09 12:00:38 · answer #2 · answered by Vonie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you talk crap about her behind her back? if you do you should be a shame on yourself but if you didn't, you should be proud of yourself.talk to the girl that has this problem, tell her the news and if they turn against each other stay where you are and don't take any sides(been there done that and bloody too) and remember this(even though it's an old stupid saying) "sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me"
2007-01-09 12:05:06 · answer #3 · answered by Becko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't quite understand either, unless like you say they are jealous. but to be that way behind her back and then talk nice to her is just wrong. its being two-faced and i cannot stand people like that.
just be yourself and not influenced by those other "babies"
you are way above them in intelligence obviously.
and if you feel that strongly about it. ask them why they talk nice to her face and talk trash behind her back.
they will be surprised and i hope feel guilty that their behavior has been noticed by others.
2007-01-09 12:05:05 · answer #4 · answered by angel1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is called being young and immature. When you get older and still do this, this is called being old and dumb.
2007-01-09 12:08:04 · answer #5 · answered by A T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz their haters and afraid that she can steal their man
2007-01-09 11:57:56 · answer #6 · answered by dona a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋