I was friends with an evil girl in my grade. She got mad at me because someone started a rumor I was dating her ex boyfriend. Its totally untrue. So we never talk but she likes to be an @ss calling me sl*t, bit*h and all sorts of names. My friend John and I work together in geometry and this girl walks up and indirectly insults me. She talks to my friend and waddles over to where we are sitting. she trys to find out what we are saying and always stares at me when shes over at my desk. I have another class English with her. We had a substitute today so the end of the period she walks up the aisle and stands right next to my desk. I'm like can I help you. I'm sick of seeing her face and its like shes trying to get my attention. I've tried ignoring her. What should I do?
2007-01-09 11:35:58 · 10 answers · asked by shiningstars 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Multiple people have told her I'm not dating her ex which is the truth and she doesn't believe it.
2007-01-09 11:39:03 · update #1
Well, if these tips don't help you, I would resort to punching her in the face... but consider these first:
Loudly ask her if she doesn't have anything better to do other than waste her time trying to insult you. This will do two things, embarass her and show at least your class (plus whom ever they tell about the incident) that she is being really immature and dumb.
Another similar version is to, in a very public place, loudly ask her to stop calling you these names because it is really immature and "we're not in middle school any more so you should really grow up."
Another tactic that isn't very fun for you but may work is this: She is obviously trying to make you feel bad- that is the whole point to her BS sooo, pretend to be nice to her. If she thinks what she is doing is getting the opposite effect of what she wants, she'll probably stop.
You can also give her an ultimatum (only if you have the leverage to do so). There was a girl in HS who was proud of getting good grades, although she copied a lot of work from others. She started a rumor about me sleeping with two guys at a party so I took a picture of her with my camera phone copying homework between classes and showed it to her. I told her that if she didn't ammend her rumor that I would show this picture to our teachers and principals and expose her secret.
2007-01-09 11:56:25 · answer #1 · answered by Erin H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He had NO right to hit you for ANY reason! Doesn't matter if you were joking around or not. As for your parents, I as a mother understand their being upset but I think they're going to far with it. If it happened to my daughter I would have the boy and his parents over for a talk to try and clear the air. Hopefully it was one stupid mistake he made and won't hit anyone especially a girl over something so ridiculous again. Best of luck!
2016-05-23 01:13:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not trying to be a misleading person but i truly think that you should go ahead and fight her. I'm not trying to sound like a mean person but the only way she'll leave you alone is if you fight her. But you need to know that there's lots of consqeneces behind fighting in school. But the only way to get her to leave you alone is if you show her that you're not scared of her. If you tell then she'll think you're scared of her and she'll always make fun of you and try to fight you. Whatever you do make sure you do the right thing. Try fighting her after school at her house but not on her property cause you can go to jail for that as well as in school.
2007-01-09 11:55:24 · answer #3 · answered by Beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really aren't, why should she have any reason to believe you are? If she won't leave you alone, tell your school counselor. Let them know she is verbally harassing you everyday and it needs to stop. You can't get an education when someone like that is being that way. She needs to get over herself and leave you alone. Good luck.
2007-01-09 11:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her.
Try not to slap or punch her when you talk with her, just say that your patience has running ou & if she doesnt stop, she wil bloody regret it in the future.
Well, if she keep taunting you even during the confrontation- use your fist then.
you might get into detention..but she will know not to mess around with you & you will feel better after slapping her too
2007-01-09 12:03:44 · answer #5 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this really comes down to her own immaturity... why dont you get her ex to tell her? and honestly... i know its hard and totally cliche... but let it roll off your back... if she stands over you in algebra and tries to get info... simply ask her for her help on a question... shes trying to kill you with stares and insults... kill her with kindness... if people know that youre not a sl*t or b*tch then dont worry about the names...
2007-01-09 11:57:37 · answer #6 · answered by Morgan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't u go out with her ex to make her mad ( u don't have to but..) or talk to a teacher you trust or a grown-up they can help
2007-01-09 11:44:20 · answer #7 · answered by Emily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try telling a counselor. that's what i did and they made it all stop. if you don't your just going to get into a fight and be in big trouble. Tell some one you can trust. or just punch her.
2007-01-09 11:41:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't punch her.It's against the law.
2007-01-09 11:46:25 · answer #9 · answered by samm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her.
2007-01-09 11:42:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋