my bf sometimes get down when things dont go right...thts perfectly normal...the thing is tht i really want to help him feel better..what are some ideas?help me plz..we cant see each other everyday...so sometimes whn he's down..i cant be wit him..
2007-01-09 11:31:49 · 17 answers · asked by pixie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think Text Messages . with endearing quotes on them have a tendency to raise my sprits.
2007-01-09 11:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by flatlined_in_ut 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
When you guys can't see each other, leave him sweet messages on his phone "just to say hi", write him notes or make him something in the time that you're not with him.
Just don't obsess over him to the point where he feels suffocated. Also, take advantage of the time you two aren't together and encourage him to do the same also, that way you have interests and things that keep you happy when you are away from each other.
Also, if you have any inside jokes, you could get him something to remind him of it when he misses you.
My boyfriend and I can't always see each other but we have this inside joke about pink cubic zirconia pinky rings (long story) anyway, I ended up actually finding one and getting it for him for Christmas. You have no idea how this boy cherishes this ring. He put it on a necklace and NEVER takes it off. He loves to tell people the story about it and it reminds him of me when we're not together.
Hope this helps!
2007-01-09 11:39:47 · answer #2 · answered by K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats so good you are there for him and hopefully he is for you. It's a partnership, so I would send him a email card telling him how much u love him, or buy a web cam ;) ummmm maybe send him a card and something special in the mail that would mean alot to him. You could surprise him and show up with dinner and watch his favorite show on tv with him or do something he likes to do. Hope I gave you some worth wild ideas
2007-01-09 11:38:44 · answer #3 · answered by laura k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 11:36:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I'm down It helps when my wife just listens and then gives me a big hug. Simple but effective. Kind of like mom used to do. Making faces and picking your nose would help too!
2007-01-09 11:36:05 · answer #5 · answered by tokes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him a mix cd with cool songs. Write him funny letters telling him why he's so awesome. Bake him something he likes and buy him a bunch ofhis favorite candy and send him a care package! Send pictures of yourself doing daily activities with captions.
2007-01-09 11:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by not given 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend has E-mail send them an email with something funny on it or a poem or something that you think might make you feel better!! that or maybe you can call him! I know that would make me feel better
2007-01-09 11:36:46 · answer #7 · answered by swim chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First get your spelling checked because that's probably why he's feeling low because he couldn't understand what the heck your saying. Secondly, nothing would make a man feel better than a good b l o w j o b, I bet he'll be smiling from ear to ear.
2007-01-09 11:38:21 · answer #8 · answered by Mt. Kilimanjaro 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well, when you are with him and he starts feeling down, you should never leave him like that. when i'm down i like having my wife by my side. sometimes i won't talk to her just cause i'm in my on world of feeling down, but i feel comfort in her presents. just listen and wait for him to talk it out and don't pry it out of him.
you can call him. do some spontanious things like send him flowers or plan exciting dates. something he can look forward to and forget about feeling down.
2007-01-09 11:39:54 · answer #9 · answered by talofa lava 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a paper back over his head and draw a smiley face.
2007-01-09 11:36:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋