Are u trully truthful to your future marriage mate.
2007-01-09 11:18:08 · 31 answers · asked by Ade 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Intamacy is for marriage only, sex before marriage is fornacation, and that is a sin.....God hates sin because it leads us to our own destruction.....Jesus took all of our sins for us on the cross, he died for us.....Jesus is the only way to God.....seek him and you shall find him....God bless ya
2007-01-09 11:36:10 · answer #1 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I dont think sex is a 'sacred' thing, but I think its worth more than what alot of people see it as these days.
its the most intimate thing you can do with a person, so I'd never go out with somebody that basically had a different girl each week/causal sex etc.
But then if im in a serious relationship I think sex is a physical way of showing a person you love them/care for them etc/being close to them.
Plus,its one of the most pleasueable things you can do.
And if you arent religious, whats the point in waiting for that hypothetical ''right person''
2007-01-09 11:46:21 · answer #2 · answered by Kat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? Well, first, I don't think that sex is as sacred as people think it is. I do think that calling it sacred helps stupid people from making mistakes as safe sex (and that includes both condoms, birth control, knowledge about unwanted pregnancy, sexually transmitted infections and regular sti testing for both you and your partners) and differentiating between sex and love is too hard for certain people.
My marriage mate and I have both had sexual relationships prior to getting together and are 100% okay with eachothers sexual history. Calling something sacred is an interesting form of social control though, isn't it?
2007-01-09 11:26:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not a sacred thing. "Sacred", by definition, is something deliberately set aside; reserved only for God. Since, I assume, you are not having sex with God or as a part of a worship ceremony, then sex, by definition, is not sacred.
Sex is designed as a very special, intimate expression of love. Inside or outside of marriage, used for this purpose it is wonderful.
Sex can be used for many other reasons... not so special. It can be used to manipulate and control; to humiliate and degrade. Inside or outside of marriage, sex for these reasons is not wonderful.
It's not the act of marriage, or the lack of it, that makes sex wonderful. It's staying true to the purpose for which it was designed.
2007-01-09 11:29:35 · answer #4 · answered by antirion 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if 2 people agree not to have sex before marriage that's perfectly cool. if one partner wants it and the other doesn't then there is no point getting married or going any further. marriage for me is sacred, but so is my act of commitment. i would never break my bond or my word with her. all that matters is both parties stay true to one another and don't stray before or after marriage.
2007-01-09 22:14:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see sex as sacred... I see it as a normal part of a healthy adult relationship. It is not a big deal, before or after marriage. But it is a very personal issue, and each person must decide for themselves.
2007-01-09 11:25:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 11:34:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a Pagan, I believe sex is sacred as its the basis of creation. Its something to value. However I don't think marriage necessarily has to take place as long as youre married in your heart as it were.
2007-01-09 11:29:38 · answer #8 · answered by serephina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not sacred. Religious people believe marriage is sacred, and sex outside marriage is wrong. Other than that, sex is good, get it while you can.
2007-01-09 12:07:15 · answer #9 · answered by colin.christie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex before marriage is a personal choice and I will NOT judge anyone if they make the choice to have sex or wait for marriage.
Sex is sacred according to religion. Sex is natural, and normal.
I have been very honest with my husband concerning my past sexual relationships. He accepted my past well before we married.
2007-01-09 11:25:34 · answer #10 · answered by Poppet 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The love should be what is sacred. If you are truly in love with the person and they with you, then whether you believe in "God" or not, that should be the important thing. If you believe in God what do you believe would be more important to Him? That you are in love with the person you are sleeping with, or that you are married to them?
However, depending on age, you get into the arguement (a more relevant one in my opinion) about whether a person is mature enough to comprehend the type of love and commitment you are talking about to begin a sexual relationship.
2007-01-09 12:25:05 · answer #11 · answered by Stew88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋