Boys say im ugly, and i believe it...how do i get over knowing im ugly?

Answer 1

Why would you allow another person to define your looks?
Try looking at yourself in the mirror-- and repeat after me
I am beautiful! I am beautiful! I AM BEAUTIFUL!! say it every day, several times a day and you will realize that you are beautiful
and by the way, you may also work on I am intelligent as beauty will only get you so far

Answer 2

BOYS can be really stupid. I don't know how old you are, but the older you get the less the things that "BOYS" say will mean to you. You may be growing into your skin, or you may not have found your personal style yet, but someday MEN will be more important, and believe me a sexy, confident beautiful woman is usually not "pretty." Most of the top runway models (even those gorgeous creatures from Victoria's Secret) was told by some boy or another that they were ugly. Boys are too young to know what beautiful looks like, so don't let them steal away the self-confidence that will make you a beautiful woman.

Answer 3

Ya know what? My brother's best friend told me every day that I was ugly. Guys at school told me I was ugly. I believed them.

But it wasn't true.

I am beautiful on the inside AND on the outside. It's not that I wasn't good to look at, I just wasn't popular enough to date (I moved here from a nearby city that was definitely the un-cool place to be "from")...And I didn't put out, so none of the guys would look twice (if they did, they'd have seen how hot I really am!).

I tell my friends about my school experience now, and they say, "Are you joking?", and "No Way!", and " You seem like the type of person who would be totally popular, and have lots of dates!"

My husband is a lucky, lucky man!

In case you don't know it, most models aren't really as pretty as they look - their zits are cleared up digitally, their legs are made longer, their lips are made fuller, etc. Most of them are actually pretty plain, once you de-digitalized their pictures, and take off the thick make-up.

Don't ever believe that you're ugly. You were given to us by God, and he wouldn't make you ugly. Even if you don't fit the (crappy, unrealistic) mold, you are beautiful. You have what none of the rest of us have, which is your amazing self. Never give that away - which is what you do when you believe someone who has nothing better to offer the world than calling you ugly.

You are beautiful, and don't ever forget it!

Answer 4

NOBODY is universally ugly, and I am sure that you aren't the exception to this. So to answer your question, there is nothing to get over.

There will be people who think you are beautiful, there will be people who think you are not. It's just taste. Nobody looks good to everyone, and vice versa! I know guys who dont think Cameron Diaz or Jennifer Aniston are pretty! Similarly, there's people I look at and think aren't very good looking but their boyfriend loves them more than anything.

You're young. You may be going through an awkward phase, we all do. God forbid any boyfriend of mine ever sees pics of me when i was 13! But you know what? As you get older you'll grow into that face and body, you'll learn what works for you and what doesn't, and you'll feel more comfortable in your own skin.

But also remember, you are SO much more than a face and a body. It's hard- we all want to be pretty- but don't let yourself become obsessed with obtaining it. Some of the most interesting and fun people I know are the ones who never even think about how they look.

Please don't believe these boys. One day you'll realise that at school, people just like to make each other feel bad, they look for reasons to hurt your feelings but it means nothing at all.

Answer 5

First, why listen to people who insult others. It is only to make themselves feel better. You are above that.

Second, I doubt you are ugly. I have only meet one ugly person in my lifetime, and it was a guy, so I know you aren't ugly. Ugly is only what you are, not how you look. Besides, you just might not be comfortable in your own skin.

Third find your favorites feature of your body and flaunt it. Example, I love knees down, it's the only part of my body I can stand, so I flaunt it. I make sure that I wear shorts that show my knees and make me feel good. Do that for yourself. It's okay not to think that you are perfect, but you are not ugly.

Finally, the boys are probably very insecure about themselves. If you can, find their biggest flaunt and nail them. Just a little comment when they call you ugly. Revenge is sweet. Trust me.

Conclusion, YOU'RE NOT UGLY.

Answer 6

You just don't need to listen to what others say. People have so many opinions about who's pretty and who's ugly. Everyone goes through that phase. Try writing down some physical things that you like about yourself. Talk to a counselor if you feel comfortable doing that. You'll grow out of that phase fast so don't stress. I'm sure you're not ugly at all. Love yourself for you because that's all you'll ever be.! Don't let them get you down.

Answer 7

first of all you arent ugly... ok ..thats the first issue u gota get over i dont care what anyone says theres always good n bad things about everyones apperance. I am totally unconfident with myself i modelled for a while but i had to quit just because i just thought i was never good enough and i lost alot of weight because of it. So trust me i know how you may be feelin insecure. u cant let people get to u thats what ive learnt all that matters is what u think. And thats what u gota work on... look in the mirror and jus become aware that you have good points in your appearance and believe it or not your not the only one who will see it. good luck

Answer 8

If you feel ugly then it will show. Have confidence in your beauty. Everyone is beautiful to someone. I tell my girls that half of this world will like you or find you attractive and the other half won't. Don't waste your time or energy on the ones that don't. Especially the ones that are rude about it. You're worth more! Have a wonderful day!

Answer 9

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And chances are that the boys telling you this aren't very bright. Just go and think about a trait that you like about yourself. Then think of another, and another...eventually you'll realize that you're pretty.

And besides, in the long run, intelligence and a good sense of humor matter more.

Answer 10

I have never met a Molly who is ugly. May be you are going to be a late bloomer.Concentrate on getting a good job and latter in life you will be filthy rich. Never met a ugly rich person. Just there aura is fantastic.