"****. Why did I just do that? It's not like they care.."
2007-01-09 11:02:36 · 23 answers · asked by Jennifer F 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I don't expect anything in return, but if someone is busting their *** for you all day, the least you can do is not treat them like hired help.
2007-01-09 11:15:01 · update #1
I KNOW RIGHT
2007-01-09 11:05:42 · answer #1 · answered by I love dooneys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes- on many occasions but at the end of the day I know that what goes around comes around. It may not be at that time or from the person I helped but...it'll come around in a positive way on a different day when I least expect it.
2007-01-09 19:08:22 · answer #2 · answered by atricky123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did that yesterday with horrible results.
I spent 1/2 the day cooking two different meals, to feed my bf(still think he is) his daughter, her friend, myself and my kid.
When I finally got up to his house to deliver the food, I said "oh, I should have told you to put the water on, to cook the spaghetti" he was pissed.
He automatically assumed that I cooked the spaghetti at home and brought it up with me. He yelled an obscenity, and I said I was going home.
He saw me today and completely ignored me.
The good thing was My daughter and I ate Spaghetti and meatballs twice since then, and the stew that I made went to my parents house, that way my family doesn;'t have to cook for 2 days.
But yeah, not even a thanks for the effort or anything.
Shouldn't be surprised, it happens to me all the time.
I have a tattoo on my forehead that reads: WELCOME
2007-01-09 19:12:45 · answer #3 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have thought that, but then I think that I am not doing it to get a reaction from them. I am doing it because it is a nice thing to do.
2007-01-09 19:06:55 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenix Rising 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All the time!
2007-01-09 19:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Many times......and 99% of the time they prove me wrong by calling and saying something or thanking me. So, usually it's worth it.
2007-01-09 19:07:16 · answer #6 · answered by blondee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes and they didn't care . Just wanted someone to drive them to where they needed to go and it was like . why did I even bother.
2007-01-09 19:07:08 · answer #7 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! All the time and then I end up shocked and surprised that they dont care..You think I would learn my lesson by now..but I never do.
Oh well!
2007-01-09 19:06:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Nope.
Because even if they don't care (or more often, don't know), I do.
And I think you're awesome all the time, and doubly awesome when you're doing something nice!
2007-01-09 19:07:47 · answer #9 · answered by meandlisa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, like you spend all day thinking about them and what you can do for them and you're being completely unselfish and they totally take you for granted! I hate everybody.
2007-01-09 19:06:31 · answer #10 · answered by Gorgeous 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you can't do something nice for someone without recognition or praise, then what was your motive in the first place?
2007-01-09 19:10:27 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋