2007-01-09 10:25:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I felt that way once. I was so intent on keeping my secret from everyone afraid about how they will treat me that i isolated myself from everyone. People will treat you badly and say mean things to you when they find out that you are gay, but there are certain people that will do that to anybody for any reason. Pick yourself up out of your depression and live the life you were giving. Enjoy it and grow through life not just go through it. I know people that hate me for being gay and i haven't even told anybody yet. So don't worry about people hating you because of who you are. Just be you the best person that you possibly can. GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-09 11:04:45 · answer #1 · answered by qdeezy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have had concerns, but your sexual orientation shouldn't run your life. You have to remember that being gay is completely normal, in fact, it's just as normal as being straight. The key is to not be so concerned with what other people think of you. You are who you are and cannot change that. There are going to be mean people, I might as well be honest, but you have to stay strong and believe in yourself. If you find this too difficult to handle, you may want to consider seeing a psychiatrist.
2007-01-09 10:52:41 · answer #2 · answered by Hmmm... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love yourself more for who you are. In time, the more you accept yourself, the less mean things will affect you. Also, there will be lots of people who won't care about you being gay; if someone is paranoid about it, than you should just avoid them as much as you can and continue with your work day as normal. Don't worry, I use to be the same way and paranoid about being bi, but when I came out all of my friends still loved and cared for me as much as they did before I came out, and now I am able to fully act my personality without fear of repercussions. Some people will make fun of you and not accept you, yes, but the people who matter will stand by you and accept you for who you are. First, however, you need to stand by yourself.
2007-01-09 10:33:55 · answer #3 · answered by guitarherofairy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love yourself! It'll be ok. Get a job you like, working with ppl you're comfortable with. Despise negativity. You're outstanding and always improving! Smile and get out there. I know it's not easy but you have to try. Do it for both of us.
2007-01-09 10:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by Warren K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anxiety almost always is a failure to decide
Since you are making a lifestyle choice, you sound unsure.
Once you have had plenty of hot, sex with countless others you will know another kind of depression . . .
2007-01-09 10:35:53 · answer #5 · answered by Clark H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget what other people think, you are equally as important as them and your sexuality is of no consequence.
Keep on doing your work, and also see a counsellor who can guide you through lessons in self-assertion. I know it sounds harsh but you need them.
2007-01-09 10:31:30 · answer #6 · answered by Modern Jesus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A suggestion would to be for you to go and find friends around your age. We will take care of you!
2007-01-09 13:40:51 · answer #7 · answered by renew69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't let it bother you. If someone does mess with you, just mess with them right back. Worst case scenario thoughts, maybe go to some therapy.
2007-01-09 11:27:27 · answer #8 · answered by curiosityreincarnated 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are just a bone idle scrounger looking for an excuse.
2007-01-09 10:29:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
friggin sissy.
2007-01-09 10:29:50 · answer #10 · answered by nobudE 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋