Is living somthing that you really are happy about?

Question

I think it's a bad thing because I'm a widow, but if you think it's a good thing to be living, tell me why

And by widow I mean I feel I was meant to suffer in life

Answer 1

I'm pretty happy with it. Considering I'd be dead if I wasn't alive so for me the first is the good choice.

Answer 2

Oh you poor thing, no wonder you are feeling sad right now. Losing your spouse is bound to make you feel like that, it's natural. I think life is wonderful. Things seem to be working out pretty well for me and my family just now. Ok not everything, my mum isn't well and I suppose nothing in life is perfect but mostly it's good.

These feelings you are having are a natural part of the grieving, they will pass in time.

Answer 3

Because you get to advance the course of your eternal soul.
The choice of happiness vs misery is yours to make every single day. Everyday that you have been miserable, you have chosen to be, just like that, you can choose not to be.Rise above your tribulations, your soul will thank you!!

Answer 4

to learn many things from your own problems!!?you may be a comforter for other widows like you!!

Answer 5

It sucks. Never take life seriously. Nobody gets out alive anyway.

My ex gf used to say "Life happens when we are doing other things"

I just say "Shiit happens, and then we die. "


Here is how **** happens in various religions and forms:

Note: **** = Shiit.

How **** Happens



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1. In the beginning was the Plan.
2. And then came the Assumptions.
3. And the Assumptions were without form.
4. And the Plan was without Substance.
5. And darkness was upon the face of the Workers.
6. And the Workers spoke among themselves saying, "It is a crock of ****, and it stinks."
7. And the Workers went unto their Supervisors and said, "It is a crock of dung, and we cannot live with the smell."
8. And the Supervisors went unto their Managers saying, "It is a container of organic waste, and it is very strong, such that none may abide by it."
9. And the Managers went unto their Directors, saying, "It is a vessel of fertilizer, and none may abide its strength."
10. And the Directors spoke among themselves, saying to one another, "It contains that which aids plant growth, and it is very strong."
11. And the Directors went to the Vice Presidents, saying unto them, "It promotes growth, and it is very powerful."
12. And the Vice Presidents went to the President, saying unto him, "It has very powerful effects."
13. And the President looked upon the Plan and saw that it was good.
14. And the Plan became Policy.
15. And that is how **** happens.


**** Happens in Various World Religions



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Taoism: **** happens
Jehovah's Witness: Let us in and we will tell you why **** happens or Knock Knock, "**** Happens."
Confucianism: Confucius say "**** happens."
Buddhism: If **** happens, it isn't really **** or **** happens because of desire
Zen: What is the sound of **** happening?
Hinduism: There isn't anything like a good **** happening.
Islam: If **** happens, it's the will of Allah
Hedonism: This **** happened before
Mormonism: **** happens again & again & again
Calvinism: **** happens because you don't work hard enough
Stoicism: This **** is good for me
Christian Science: **** is only in your mind or Only good **** happens
Seventh Day Adventist: No **** on Saturdays
Hare Krishna: **** happens, **** happens, happens happens, **** happens or **** happens rama rama ding ding
Moonies: Only happy **** happens
Rastafarianism: Let's smoke this ****
Existentialism: What is ****, anyway?
Existential Nihilism: **** happens and then you die
Quadrinity Process: **** happens, recycle it
Unity: There is no ****
Atheism: **** happens for no apparent reason or No ****
Agnostic: Farts happen
Unitarianism: Let's have a meeting
Evangelist: Send me all your money or **** will happen to you
Protestantism: Let **** happen to someone else
Catholicism: If **** happens, you deserved it or It's all your fault
Judaism: Why does **** always happen to US?
New Agers: You needed to have this **** in your life, now visualize it away or Learn the lesson it has to teach.
Goddess: **** happens and it's all men's fault.

Answer 6

sometimes you'll be happy to be alive other times you won't be so happy go lucky to be alive. but as long as your alive. you will through the emotional roller coaster of being alive.
sorry to hear about the loss of your wife.
chin

Answer 7

I'am 13 yrs old and i sometimes feel as though i don't belong here. Or atleast thats what i feel, sometimes i think it may be true

Answer 8

you like male to me....sometimes esp on weekends