From whom am I pregnant?

Question

Please help me! I need professional advice!! I am pregnant. First day of my last period was August 1. I had unprotected sex on my last day of period - August 5. This was just a passion. I don't love this person. I have a husband and we had sex on August 12 and August 13. He did not come inside me, just pulled out of me. I am 5.5 months pregnant and for me very important to know who is the father. I had an ultrasound test (first one) on Sept. 16 and it showed me that baby is 5 weeks and 2 days. Then I had another ultrasound tests and after they showed that my baby is 1 week older ( so it's might happend with undesired partner). Please let me know who is father of baby? I really love my husband and it's pregnancy is very desirable for him and for me.
by the way, my period was always 28 days + - 1 day. So it was pretty steady.

I am looking forward for your replys and your suggestions!!

Answer 1

Well,this is only a predictable guess because only the doctor can tell u for sure but from my calculations from the information given u concieved on August 15. and your due date would be around May,8th. And it shows that u are exactly 23 weeks. These are all calculations of how your doctor does it also. In this case it would be that your husband is most likely the father..thats said because sperm can only live inside of a womans body for 3-5 days and if u had sex with this man on the 5th there is no way the sperm would be able to survive inside of you for 7-8 days long. Also, it is also very unlikely to get pregnant during your period whether its the last day or whatever..during a period a woman sheds the lining of her uterus and her the egg that didnt fertlize dies and comes out through her menstrual cycle..so there is really no good possibility..just maybe a slight but nothing major. I would say there is like a 985 chance of your husband being this childs father..The withdraw method does not work all the time and is not a good form of birth control. I would suggest u and your hubby enjoy this pregnancy to the fullest and to not even think or worry about this other man..Leave him out of your life and let this be a lesson..you learn from your mistakes and I hope u have an enjoyable healthy pregnancy..Good Luck!!

Answer 2

I have two children both of whom were conceived on the last day of my period. My husband and I always have unprotected sex and I have never gotten pregnant until I wanted to. You really cant go by what everyone is saying the only real way to tell is from a paternity test, which probably wont go well with your hubby if he doesnt know about the other guy... Good Luck!!

Answer 3

The times that you had s e x with your husband were most likely the days you were ovulating if your cycle is regular, so it is most likely your husband's. The undesired guy's sperm would have had to stay in your body for a week which is possible, but highly unlikely. It is probably your husband's baby. People get pregnant all the time even if they use the withdrawal method. It's not very reliable.

Answer 4

To be honest with you it all depends on when you ovulate. After your egg is released inside your body, it has be fertilized usually with in 24 hours or less before it is no good. Going by a ovulation calendar and assuming that your cycle is as accurate as you say it is, I would think you ovulated around the 11-13 and that is is probably your husband's baby. I am not going to preach a moral lesson about your question because I am sure you have been tormented enough by the situation alone.

Answer 5

Boy, do you have a serious problem! More than one serious problem, actually.

According to your ultrasound tests, your baby was conceived either August 3 or August 10. If all other things are correct, it sounds like the baby could be from the one night stand. If your information is off, the child could be your husband's.

But why did you sleep with another man in the first place? From what you know of your husband, how will react if and when he finds out? Will he cry? Run away? Yell? Try to kill you? Forgive you? Walk out? A combination of the above?

Yes, you do need help. You need to speak to a counselor to sort out your feelings, the facts, and your options. You need to discuss the questions above with her/him.

You might want to speak to a lawyer as well.

Also, you might want to take a paternity test. You might grab your husband's DNA from the hair on his brush or from his toothbrush and compare it to the baby's. You might want to get this test on the sly at some place where they don't know you. I usually don't advice sneaking around, but in this case it might be warranted, at least for now.

Eventually, though, even if the child is your husband's, you may have to "fess up" and tell him and beg his forgiveness. You may have to go to joint marriage counseling; I highly recommend this. You may need to pray for forgiveness from God, who is, of course, ready to forgive you. (Remember the story in John 8 about the woman caught in adultery?)

You have a lot of cleaning out and healing to do before this child comes, and perhaps afterward. Plenty of luck to you and your family, and plenty of God's blessings and mercy. Peace. I have prayed for you and your family.

Answer 6

Sorry in advance for all the comments you will get for posting this. Anyways, it is very unlikely that you got pregnant by the man you had sex with on the last day of your period. You are most fertile 14 days after the first day of your period. Even if your husband pulled out, there was most likely pre***. The fact that that is when you had sex with him during your fertile time, you are most likely pregnant by your husband. Good luck and Godbless. I hope everything works out for you.

Answer 7

My guess it that its your husbands...you ovulate about 14 days after teh first day of your last period. Even though your husband did not ejaculate it could still be his as pre ejaculate contains sperm. Wait till the baby is born and have a dna test with the other guy...that way if you don't want your husband to know he won't

Answer 8

A paternity test would be the best way to go. At this point, only God knows the true father of your baby. Or, you can wait for the baby to be born and see who he looks like

Answer 9

To be honest, comiting infidelity is wrong and this is your karma for doing it. Second, the only way to determin who the father is for sure is by having a dna test done. You are going to have to come clean eventually with your husband. Time to fess up and take the consequences.

Answer 10

Some of you people are such judgemental aholes, I swear. Answer the girl's question, don't preach to her.
I'm sure it is your husbands. If you are regular with your cycle, you usually ovulate around 14 days before your next period. Good luck, and don't pay attention to the perfect people who like to throw stones.