i've been with him for 7 years and he will be home in 1month should not tell him
2007-01-09 10:07:06 · 16 answers · asked by Ms Girly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I suppose it's normal for people to doubt relationships sometimes, expecially when the prospect of more serious things come about.
I would tell him, because honesty is one of the foundations that a relationship is built on. If it was something meaningless, and it made you relaize how much you love him, then tell him. But don't expect it to be easy by any means.
I will say though that I agree with the poster who was in disbelief about how long you've been dating. But everyone has then own ways of going about things. I personally couldn't be with someone for 7 years, and not be married, but like most things, I amsure that there is a reason for this.
Good luck in whatever you decide to do.
2007-01-09 10:26:44 · answer #1 · answered by scromlette213 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are asking must mean that it is bad. Would you have kissed the other man in front of your boyfriend? I'm assuming not.Therefore it is bad.Is there any possibility that someone else will tell your boyfriend about the kiss? If it was just an innocent kiss and no one will be hurt by it, I would not tell him. It will cause more problems and hurt him. If you are no longer interested in him and want to move on to other dating, Break up with him as soon as possible. No sense in you both being miserable. Good Luck
2007-01-09 10:14:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love your bf? Why is he in jail...for a month no less? I would have to say you must not be in love with him if you are kissing other guys. I don't know if you should tell because I don't know why he is in jail? Is he a felon, do drugs? I think you should reconsider your relationship with your bf because you are definately having thoughts of straying...
2007-01-09 10:14:47 · answer #3 · answered by LaRae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how long he's been locked up! If he's been in there for just a few months then it's bad that you kissed another guy, but if he has been locked up for more than 1 to 2 years and some than hey it's his fault that he did something to get himself locked up and to possibly lose everything even the one that he loves!
How long has he been locked up?
2007-01-09 10:14:20 · answer #4 · answered by MYPHARRELL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you kiss another guy while your boyfriend is in jail then I would say you cheated on your boyfriend.
2007-01-09 10:12:00 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, maybe you should break up with him. If he is been in jail, you do not really know him anymore, do you? If you like the guy you kissed, go with him.
2007-01-09 10:23:55 · answer #6 · answered by Simply Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was only a kiss and it meant nothing, what's the big deal? If it was more you definately have to say something. And keep your mouth off other guys so your not in this position.
2007-01-09 10:12:52 · answer #7 · answered by tammy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seven years and he hasn't proposed? Drop the convict, and if the guy who smooched you is an all around, hardworking, nice decent guy with no rap sheet, then go with him.
Definitely, don't tell the jailbird when he gets out what happened.
2007-01-09 10:18:02 · answer #8 · answered by StantheMan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if you were faithful for almost 7 years why mess up now.
No the bad part is you waited 7 yrs for a man I hope for your sake it works Good Luck.
2007-01-09 10:54:00 · answer #9 · answered by baby11kc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is, but it doesn't sound like he does what's right either, because he's in jail.
2007-01-09 10:15:05 · answer #10 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋