Virginity at the age of 16?

Question

I turned 16 a few months back but still have not taken part in any sexual activity with a partner, not even oral sex. IS this a bad thing for someone of my age. As i have been told from answers in my other question my penis is not small, do girls prefer a bigger penis or not?

Answer 1

Congratulations on maintaining good moral standards and your virginity. Wait until you meet that special someone and until you are married - you will not regret it - to become sexually active once you are married is well worth the wait.

Answer 2

First thing to realise, is that although you may know of people who have had some sort of sexual activity, it is NOT compulsary.

It is not a bad thing of someone your age, alot of people dont take part in sexual activity untill their twenties, you have nothing to worry about.

To your second question it really depends on the Girl, a common thing is that people tend to say girls like it when a males penis is big however Girls have different opinions.

Your partner should be comfortable with the size of your penis as its not the size that matters but the way you use it ;)

Answer 3

First of all, Many guys are still virgins into their 20's, some even into their 30's.. ive even heard of a couple that was still virgin at 40. As for penis size, its not necessarily the size but the fit that matters. Too big and your likely to hurt a girl. Girth is more important than length for a girls vagina is only 6" long

Answer 4

Good for YOU!! Remember, your age has nothing to do with having an active sexual life. I waited until I was 19 and that was to share with my potential husband. We were engaged at the time as well. Not saying you need to be engaged, what I AM saying is, peer pressure should have no effect on your decision. At that early wage of 16, hormones are running rampede and your thoughts are not that clear. You are impressionable easily due to peer pressure. Be strong and stand your ground. And also to answer your question of size of your penis, size does not matter. Why the big hurry anyway?

Answer 5

Best between 16-18...


Reason?

you are still living at home as when you start you can have a lot more heart ache problems when relaltionships start and support from mates going through the same thing, and how many are in your year?

How many may be in a little shop or office you may be working where all are older and snogging gets you sacked?

Likewise hleps to get some experience before uni... And not just sex but realtioships and dating...

Think titanic... its the ones who got in the first boats that survived when it was not necessary...


Morals are about being nice. that would include not putting the girl at risk, get her on a depro injection ideally and you use condoms...


Practice as you can mess it up... ie in the dark possibly even in car,

And note as you get it off if you spill or drop sperm it could get her pregant as it could if on your fingers when you take it off and you dont wash fingers.


Either way adopt this attiude to sex if you get a girlfriend.


Amusment park.


ie if you skip to the top ride the others are less fun, you may be sick and ruin the day.


Best go on little rides then bigger and bigger...

Getting lots of fun warm up practice ic those bjs along the way, so you also get good at foreplay.


That way when you do , do it, unlikely to be so quick and crap in bed and girl will want more.


but for foks sake get started on the dating at least...


As you dont want to end up having to go to a hooker...






www.childline.org.uk
www.fpa.org.uk

www.4yp.co.uk


www.ruthinking.org.uk

www.brook.org.uk

Answer 6

No this is normal many people do not have sex unitl their 20 or more! Dont worry mate you will ok! Girls like bigger penis' but if youve got a big penis and dont know how to use it well whats the point!

Answer 7

You are still in the process of maturing, in your body and in your mind and in your emotions. Whatever your friends or other guys say, there is plenty of time to find out about sex when you are a bit older. You don't want to be a father yet do you? Or pick up unpleasant diseases.

Don't feel pressured into becoming sexually active until you feel ready - both physically, mentally and emotionally.

And about the size of penises - as they say, size really doesn't matter and when you are with a girl who really loves you you'll realise that.

Answer 8

I'm turning sixteen later this summer, and I don't plan on having sex in the next two years. Its your decision, don't let anyone else influence it. Penis size is not important, as long as she gets an orgasm. If she has one, then you've done your job. Sometimes girls prefer a smaller or average one, because a huge one might cause them some pain, if it don't fit.

Answer 9

The more you look for something the less you'll find it. Stop worrying and wait for your best time, your nicest partner.
You know, desire is very enjoyable too .
as a women I can tell, I don't care any size and I believe it is blind minded limited to think that sex is a penis question. It is much more than this. Do anyone care the size of fingers ??

Answer 10

I was seventeen before my first sexual encounter with the opposite sex.I have not regrets. It's refreshing to know that there are still some sixteen year olds out there that haven't rushed in to adulthood without at least looking first.The anticipation of that day made the experience that much more pleasurable for me. "However, the times they are a changing"-Eric Clapton.
Oh, and some girls like them big,and some don't like them too big.

Answer 11

Be happy without sex. Girls prefer not a big penis, but much time
stand up!