I'm 24yrs old and every now and then I go through this thing where I have to find video clips online of various "adult" things. Some of it I actually think is sick but it still turns me on. Recently I actually had some big build up issue and had to go into an adult movie store (first time ever) and I bought a DVD. I only watched it twice and it wasn't fulfilling at all........what is the matter with me? Is this like the climax of my sexual side or am I a perv? I do have relations...but for some reason it doesn't seem as rewarding as seeing those things.
2007-01-09 09:18:28 · 12 answers · asked by sweetagony666 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You'd be suprised how many people are into fetishes; feet, food, stockings, school girls, school girl feet covered in food... Ugh, I gotta go!
2007-01-09 09:31:26 · answer #1 · answered by albion53151 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are not a pervert for being curious about sex or wanting to know what other people get into. Some of it is a turn on. Its part of discovering your own sexuality. It is each person's choice about were the line is drawn. You are not harming anyone by viewing porn. The only issue for yourself is that you need to make a distinction between what is only just sex and what is love making, sex which is a result of loving someone. If your sex life is not rewarding, it may be that you are not really compatible with your partner or you're not in love with him. It is difficult to improve sex with your partner if it is not a loving relationship because in a loving relationship, you can afford to talk about it in order to improve your situation with that person. If it is a casual affair, you get what you get and there is nothing to work on.
2007-01-09 18:15:53 · answer #2 · answered by Lucid 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you would be considered to be a pervert. I know a lot of people disagree with this but I don't think there is anything wrong with what you are doing. The brain is the biggest sexual organ in the body. Some people are just visual people and porno really charges that part of the brain. Yes, some people become dependant on it for sexual arrousal... but most do not, it's strictly for pleasure. There is a lot of stigma attached to this but it is the biggest selling commodity on the market. Therefor, I feel like there are a lot more people out there who are doing it than admitting doing it.
2007-01-09 17:53:42 · answer #3 · answered by Goddess 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would not worry. I think your behavior is normal. I think that there is a stigma about these things and maybe for good reason because there is definetly a line you should not cross.
If you are hurting no one then you are normal and it is also appropriate to keep these things private. It does not make you a pervert.
2007-01-09 17:34:52 · answer #4 · answered by Julie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hate to say it man, but yes, you probably are what fits into the category of 'pervert'. Sorry!
But then, what is a 'pervert'? If you are not hurting anyone, then hey, who gives a toss!
2007-01-09 17:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you are feeding a dangerous habit. This habit could get out of your control very fast, and could have a detrimental effect in your intimate relationships in the future. I have been involved in the past with a guy who was the same way and I look down on him as someone to be pitied.
2007-01-09 17:25:49 · answer #6 · answered by isiseamenhotep 3 · 1⤊ 5⤋
you jsut might be more visual. or maybe you watch porn with certain themes you don't practice. as long as you aren't getting addicted/dependent and can still form healthy relatinoships your fine
2007-01-09 18:53:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a healthy, and sexually curious pervert. Welcome to our very large world wide membership list.
2007-01-09 17:39:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're abnormal, just curious.
2007-01-09 17:42:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it feels good and does not hurt you physically, than it's ok.
"Perversion is us". (Muriel Dimen)
2007-01-09 17:30:50 · answer #10 · answered by Ronald Vexa 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋