conceiving problems?

Question

I have been trying for a baby for over 22 months now. i came off the pill (Which i had been on for 5 years) to try for a baby without success. i have been back and too to the docs for the last 6/8 months to see if they could help me and all the reply was that i had been through a lot of stress and to continue. i experienced a period in at the beginning of nov and 2 weeks later had another period! then in dec another period and low and behold 20 days later a period jan 1st! a gr8 start to the new year i must say, what is going on?? my periods can differ from month to month; sometimes having 2 in one month. i have just been for a blood test to check hormone levels and have to wait for one week for the results to come back, fingers crossed. why can't i conceive? i'm not stressed and am really happy with my life. has anyone else experienced anything similar pls let me know,

THANKYOU

Answer 1

I know what you're going through. I've been trying to conceive for 28 months now. My cycles are irregular - although usually longer rather than shorter. I have been to the doctor and had bloodwork which came back everything normal. It's frustrating because there seems to be no problems with either myself or my husband. I started keeping track of my basal body temperature and last month I didn't even ovulate. So now I am wondering how often I really do ovulate. Hopefully this bloodwork will give you some answers. I have tried clomid for 2 months and did ovulate but didn't get pregnant. I'm hoping to try it again soon though. So maybe you could talk to your doctor about clomid. Good luck!

Answer 2

Try taking supplements such as ovulex (money back is you do not concieve) and try cough medcine when ovulating to thin the mucus. Obviously you need to know when you are ovulating so use the kit and do a diary. Have sex every other day regardless of ovulation.

What age are you? Obviously this is a waste of time if your 65, remember fetility drops 35 plus and also the man has to be producing sperm (there are sperm testing kits).

Make sure healthy and eating well and no too under weight either if you are not having regular period that could be a problem. Also try massage to relax you.

Answer 3

I was on the pill for 5 years as well and have been trying to 6 months. My doctor has put me on Clomid and I have completed cycle 2. My doctor told me to stop stressing as well and I am fine. Have you ask for Clomid? Maybe try this. They are supposed to start you out at 50mg then 100mg, 150mg etc. There is an all natural one www.ovulex.com I am not sure how well it works. Also go to www.babyhopes.com and get some ovulating kits to detect your ovulation. They are cheap and fast delivery. Best wishes!

Answer 4

I have had irregular periods before and had a hard time to get pregnant to and thought it had to do with my periods. but I was wrong. when I realized when I was ovulating I tried again and a month later I got pregnant.
how to get pregnant hope it helps. You get pregnant when you ovulate. ovulation last five days. How to tell when you are ovulating. lets look at an egg ok. not the yoke but the white part ok when you start to have a discharge the color like the white part, you will ovulate five days that is when your egg is travelling down the follopin tubes and you can get preganant ok. the sperm has to connect with the egg to get pregnant. I wish you good luck don't give up.

Answer 5

hi there,

you need to go back to the Dr's and ask him to referrer you to a gyno, or fertility specialist so he can see whats wrong, blood tests, ovary scan, sperm test, etc

but there's loads they can do and like someone said clomid is usually the first route they go down

if the Dr refuses see another one i don't see why he hasn't refereed you already.

i have irregular periods and i have something called pcos I'm not saying you have it but it might be one of the routes you gyno will look at.

Answer 6

honey i know its hard you may not think it stress you but truth be told it dies stress your body not necsarily you i would reccommend taking some pregnancy supplements and then stop trying just enjoy making love to your man and seeing what happens as crazy as it seems but i hav heard of many times were a couple tries for a long time to have a baby then as soon as they stop tryin they fall pregnant just take good care of your self and see what happens good luck honey and i wish the best for you

Answer 7

nicely one ingredient we did is were given theses pills for my companions fertility and then being pregnant vitums and then there is different such issues as writing down ur era and what number days ur cycle is then purchase some ovulation checks and performance sex everysecond day. assistance on the thanks to have sex is nomal style and u on accurate. After sex positioned ur legs up and pretend ur using a motorcycle for perchance 20 minutes or basically keep them up. those are each of the ingredient we tried and we fell with in 4 months so good success and taking section in attempting to get pregnant. attempt to no longer imagine about it 24 hours 7 days a week it truly is going to rigidity ya insane ok have relaxing desire this helped

Answer 8

have you tried herbal remedies to regulate your cycle i was advised to take agnus castus and black cohosh once a day, it has worked i noticed after about 3 months.
good luck.

Answer 9

I would suggest you try accupunture