Please tell me the things you like best that you wife does for you in and out of the bedroom. I need new ideas. I also would love to know the thing/ things you wife isn't doing that would make you happy?
2007-01-09 08:40:26 · 13 answers · asked by mommy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know more sex but how to go about it we have two young children. Some good ideas on spice?
2007-01-09 08:47:13 · update #1
give up the backdoor and invite the neighbors college daughter over for whisky & ATM
2007-01-09 08:44:03 · answer #1 · answered by phooey 4 · 0⤊ 6⤋
Out of the bedroom, I love it when I come home from a hard days work and she rubs my back and shoulders, or she has dinner ready, or is making dinner, or heats up dinner for me.
In the bedroom, just cuddling in bed, nuzzling and kissing, just being playful, and the fact that we can enjoy sex with eachother without thinking that she has to do it for me, or me for her.
There used to be things that I wished she would do to make me happy, but I found that those things didn't make her happy.
To me knowing there is nothing that makes me happier in or out of the bedroom than knowing she is happy.
2007-01-09 08:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I'd much rather my wife be uninhibited. I would never dream of making her or even asking her to do something that I knew she was uncomfortable with. So explore your fantasies......get a little wild with each other (or others, if you're into that). Don't hold back at all. I wish you the best of luck.
2007-01-09 08:46:38 · answer #3 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
in the br -- my wife's a bit timid and conservative; I would like more oral, doggy, etc. just a notch up in the kink factor, nothing too crazy. otherwise she's fine, she seems accommodating to my sex drive which I like.
outside the br -- she brings me hot cocoa without asking; has lunch ready for me in the morning, would like it if she were a bit less talkative or at least less talkative about frivolous subjects. I would like more intelligent discussion.
My wife is who she is and I love her for that.
2007-01-09 08:49:37 · answer #4 · answered by Jeremy K 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get away for a weekend together. Nothing like a break from the kids. Mix it with some stimulating activities or movies.
2007-01-09 08:53:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
when he comes home from work, shut the door, push him against it, kiss him like youve been waiting all day, and give him a bj
graphic i know but u asked 4 spice....
make arrangments 4 the kids to be gone obviously
2007-01-09 09:04:54 · answer #6 · answered by *never give up* 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband loves that he comes home to a clean home, dinner, and wife that runs outside to meet him. In ALL areas of a marriage communication is key. Allow him to reveal his fantasies and do what you can to fulfill them.
2007-01-09 08:48:50 · answer #7 · answered by lady_blu_iz 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Save some energy and have more sex at the end of the day.
WHY DO WOMEN ASK AND THEN NOT LISTEN????
2007-01-09 09:13:23 · answer #8 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A little more sex
2007-01-09 08:43:36 · answer #9 · answered by bigfree_2005 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
umm i don't know what to tell you my both kids are deaf and we do great in and out our bedroom smiling. if they were hearing then we will be going in our car where our kids can't hear. smiling.
2007-01-09 09:31:31 · answer #10 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I invited my girlfriend over and my husband really had a great time with both of us.
2007-01-09 08:45:00 · answer #11 · answered by Karen C 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋