I went to a wild party the other night, got drunk, and at the encouragement of some of the guys there, ended up kissing another girl I know. I was tipsy, but knew well what I was doing. Now, this girl is coming on to me and must think that I am gay or bi. I don't know what to do....help please.
2007-01-09 08:38:31 · 8 answers · asked by Shanti 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
The answer would depend upon your intnetions. For example, did you enjoy the kiss and are you curious about it. Do you want to explore the feelings you received from it. On the other hand, if you are not interested in pursuing this kind of a relationship, you should be open and honest about it and inform her of that. Do not play games. Tell the truth.
2007-01-09 10:20:09 · answer #1 · answered by Kerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, did you like it when you did it? If you did than maybe you should give this poor girl a chance while your sober. She must be so confused right now about you. You like her one day than the next she's just some girl. That maybe how she feels about it. Why don't you just be honest with yourself and have a talk with her. Whether you like her or not.
2007-01-09 08:43:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest.......your were parting and were encouraged by others to engage in some fun behavior..............your flattered by her attention but you have no interest in exploring the matter further...you do not wanr to waiste her time
then wish her luck
2007-01-09 10:02:00 · answer #3 · answered by Jonathan L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to go out with her and establish a relationship? If so, then flirt back and see where it goes. If not, then turn her down and say your not interested. It isn't a difficult thing, do you want to be involved with her or not?
2007-01-09 09:03:17 · answer #4 · answered by elvishbard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends.... if you have no interest, then you just need to say 'Back off' and be honest. If you are interested, then have a little fun with it and just see what happens. All in all, just be honest with yourself and with her.
2007-01-09 09:13:54 · answer #5 · answered by Amy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not gay or bi...then just be up front and tell her.
2007-01-09 08:43:44 · answer #6 · answered by cripesokay2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest with her about your feelings and try not to hurt her feelings.
2007-01-09 08:42:53 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try her out
2007-01-09 09:07:16 · answer #8 · answered by dustin d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋