I like a boy , let's call him Bam, for refferal sake.
Bam likes me very much
but i'm not sure if i like him so much anymore. In the summer, we had an awesome time together, but i barely see him now, and he likes staying at home (just last weekend we were supposed to go to the movies but the kid basically cancelled our plans and held me hostage in his house hahahaha)
and he keeps meaning to ask me out, to be his girlfriend, but his nerves always get the best of him, and he shys away.
I'm just not sure if i want to date this boy.
What should i do?
2007-01-09 08:16:26 · 10 answers · asked by Jam 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
you shut up.
2007-01-09 10:05:49 · update #1
It was directed to someone else.
please mind your own business Jambi.
2007-01-09 11:06:25 · update #2
I had a Bam once. We liked each other a lot in grade 9 but didn't date until grade 10. He was very cute (we're talking young Elvis here), and quite shy which I found just as cute at the time. However, it wasn't enough. Our relationship just lacked chemistry and excitement so after a month I had to call it off. What can I say? I felt like I was always compromising for his lack of initiative. He took the break up hard I'm afraid.
If he can't even muster up the courage to take you out and ask you to be his girlfriend, I wouldn't waste my time. Maybe in a couple years when his testicles come in, he will realize what he's missing.
2007-01-09 08:36:47 · answer #1 · answered by Shorty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER start a sentence with the words "Tell me what to do". You are asking for a world of trouble.
THINK about getting an education and getting some self-esteem, then you will know yourself better and will not need to ask others what you should do. Asking questions and seeing other people's opinions and advice is one thing, but truly, YOU are the only one who can answer questions regarding your life and what to do with it!!!! Good luck!
2007-01-09 08:42:08 · answer #2 · answered by Alexandriagal 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about it and decide if you like him. if you do, well then YOU ask him out theres definently nothing wrong with a girl asking a guy out. go for it orr if you dont really like him then tell him you would rather just be friiends im sure he would be fine with it and if hes not then hes not a nice kid. good luck and stuff.
2007-01-09 08:24:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not sure about if you want to date him or not, then start checking out the other guys a bit. Better yet, make him green with envy and leave him wishing he'd have acted quicker and asked you out. : )
Good luck girl!!
2007-01-09 08:28:20 · answer #4 · answered by bluegrass 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get aggressive and help the "boy" out. You ask him out, you make some plans, and you go in his wallet to make sure he has enough to pay for all this:)
2007-01-09 08:21:24 · answer #5 · answered by Tracey T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should give him a bit of time because to ask someone out surely takes alot of guts or why dont u try and ask him yourself and see what happends.anywy hoped i help n gud luck.
2007-01-09 08:33:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friends with Mr. Margera until he asks you out.
2007-01-09 08:19:51 · answer #7 · answered by steffers4979 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
l think you want to date this boy
you say:I like a boy
Bam likes me very much
2007-01-09 08:50:48 · answer #8 · answered by luckyducky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the curb. Tell him to leave you alone and you think he's a loser. Simple. :)
- Bride
2007-01-09 09:11:14 · answer #9 · answered by Tori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should tell him how you feel, but nicely dont be all like "grrrr i hate you" or anything be nice but truthful.
2007-01-09 08:38:30 · answer #10 · answered by MaRiA_luvs_U 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋