please tell me why a alcholic woman is alowed to keep her four young kids and the father who does not drink and works hard and wants to see his kids and have custody has no rights to see them because she doesnt want him too. the father has a loving family who dote on the kids when they saw them 24/7 and they loved being with there father and his family have no rights. shes now sleeping around with an old drunk and a young druggy bringing them home to sleep with her.
social services how youve got this one so so so wrong this time,
i hate youso much.
in this case those poor kids did not come first.
2007-01-09 08:15:50 · 12 answers · asked by india 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
iam sorry to say social services are involved. my brother has told them everything. they are never out of our minds we thimk of them 24/7.
we are all a loving hard working family who are selfs work with kids.
2007-01-09 08:31:18 · update #1
actually honey iam the chidrens aunty the brothers sister so get your facts right.
2007-01-09 08:33:57 · update #2
The law always favours the woamn I am afraid. My wfe is an alcoholic and she battered me last Christmas - perforated my eardrum. I pushed her over in pain and rage and she called the police. Guess who was turfed out of his house.
The only suggestion I have is to get a name at social services and bombard them with evidence - photos names etc. make sure the named person knows this will all go to the papers.
Good luck
2007-01-09 08:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by eddie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is such a sad case as the children would be much better off with their dad and his family. I would just hang on in there and keep on at the social services, if she is an alcholic something will happen eventually but lets hope its nothing bad to the children. She is probably hanging on to them for the extra money she gets for having them with her. I wish you all the best of luck and hope things work out ok for you all. Dont forget the children are getting older all the time, eventually they will be able to decide for themselves who they want to live with. You sound a terrific sister to be so concerned all stick together something will happen soon.
2007-01-09 10:16:05 · answer #2 · answered by Kirks Folley 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that these government appointed child protection services are really difficult to navigate. Its like that in Australia as well. Decisions that are made by beaucrats just dont make sense. The services here are slowly trying to pin point problem areas but realy it takes time. Just keep plodding along soonre hopefully than later the penny will drop to these government decision makers and it will sort itself out. I am sorry to hear about the upheaval for the children.
2007-01-09 17:41:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way. I lease a room in my homestead and performance grew to grow to be away a lot of human beings for this and different causes. they don't like it, yet difficult cookies. i have also realized that even a convalescing alcoholic might want to be very puzzling to stay with. those who're prepared to attach with alcoholics are enablers. you are able to't rescue someone who places booze in the previous each little thing else of their life. the in consumer-friendly words thanks to help an alcoholic is to stay at arm's length so that you're literally not getting sucked into the vortex.
2016-12-28 13:19:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Social services l think at most they belong to the sewage.
2007-01-09 09:30:36 · answer #5 · answered by TheMan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to go back to court. Demand home visits. The surprise kind. Then they'll see her for what she's worth. And you should prevail.
2007-01-09 08:31:26 · answer #6 · answered by Sharyn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have evidence of her behaviour, advise Social Service. You can do so confidentialy.
What you describe is child abuse
2007-01-09 08:25:19 · answer #7 · answered by alan h 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to hear about this life sucks at times hope the children dont come to any harm ??
2007-01-09 08:25:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a shame how CPS has failed so many children.
2007-01-09 08:26:01 · answer #9 · answered by Tonya L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its just a matter of time, Death, jail, or institution.
2007-01-09 08:22:49 · answer #10 · answered by BUM 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋