I know child birth changes things forever but what can be done to counter act some of it. I have not talked to her about it becouse I do not what to bring it up untill have I have some idea to suggest. I do not want to make her feel bad about her body. Not an attempt to be vulgar but she is now large enough down there to insert my fist easly. I just a normal guy and not nearly that size.
2007-01-09 08:15:25 · 8 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I am not talking bad about her. I understand that she had 3 of my kids. I am asking becouse it is an issue for me in our marriage and if there is something that can be done I would like to talk to her about trying it. If not I will not bring it up. I think that is fair. I plan on being with her for the rest of my life so I think it is fair that bring this up if there is someting that can be done and she is willing.
2007-01-09 08:22:57 · update #1
Check out the KegelMaster exercise device. It really works. She also needs to be tight to prevent incontinence and uterine prolapse. I have had four kids and I am tight.
2007-01-09 08:27:01 · answer #1 · answered by pennypincher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o.k. there are a few things that can be done. as someone has mentioned, kegal excercises(contracting the vagina), i'm not sure wehter there is a surgical procedure for women but, you yourself could always get something from your dr to make your penis larger if it's only average you may want to do that irregardless. talk to your wife, if you two are in this for the long haul then i suggest some communication now or some one may get the seven year itch soon. giving birth does not make your vagina bigger, everything goes back to the way it was, are you sure your penis isn't getting smaller?
2007-01-09 08:35:03 · answer #2 · answered by msduelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can do pelvic floor exercises look it up on the internet. she can do it at home with no one knowing what shes doing. It's basically squeezing you butt cheeks together quickly 10 times, while shes doing this her vagina muscles are working aswell. She needs to do it quite a few times a day. you can also buy inserts which look like little plastic cones which are inserted into the vagina and then she just does these exercises as often as she can thru the day.
2016-05-22 23:38:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sure, if you want to suggest that she undergo a surgical procedure and run the risk of having her never talk to you again. Have you tried different positions? That could be all it takes, so try several before you even think of mentioning surgery to her.
2007-01-09 08:26:17 · answer #4 · answered by Tora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kegal exercisesThey help to tighten the muscles.Her own doctor can tell how to do them or refer her to a physiotherapist.This is a sensitive issue so she will not want you to bring it up.We women can be very touchy.
2007-01-09 08:27:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kegal excersizes
2007-01-09 08:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by claireybearyfairy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually there is not much you can do after this point.... lots of oral she will appreciate that.... be careful how you bring it up... you may start world war 3 with this one.
2007-01-09 08:25:42 · answer #7 · answered by daisyduke_205 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you expect after 3 children , you give birth to 3 kids then come on here and have a moan!
could try doing some sit ups
2007-01-09 08:20:08 · answer #8 · answered by KELLY 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋