My boyfriend and me used to have sex all the time. Now its hardly ever, and only if i ask. its horrible i knw hes not cheating on me because we live together. What can i do =[
2007-01-09 08:15:03 · 15 answers · asked by aylamarie1990 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Help is on the way. I will sleep with you, all the time. Email me.
Dwayne
2007-01-11 03:43:53 · answer #1 · answered by Dwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First mistake. Thinking he wouldn't cheat. My ex hated his father for ruining his family by cheating, we lived together and spent ALL of our time together. He still found a way to cheat on me the whole time we were together. He would take sick days, holidays and such at work and spend the day with another woman, all the while pretending he was at work. He even called at his regular lunch hour during the dates! I would have never suspected he was cheating but I finally called some strange numbers on his SHREDDED cell phone bill and they turned out to be women he was dating while planning our wedding.
Signs of a cheater:
Change in dress
Change in music likes/dislikes
Hiding cell phone or shredding the bill
Tanning-when he never has before
Worrying about how he looks more
Blaming you for your relationship troubles
Lack of sex or interest
2007-01-09 08:47:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in a similar situation so totally understand where you are coming from, my boyfriend is going through a divorse and has a parent that is very ill so is totally stressed out. we have been together for 6 months and at the begining sex was wonderful and we could not keep our hands off each other. we have only had sex once since November and he has said it is because he is so stressed out, but I found some tell tale signs last night that he has been pleasing himself. when I tackled him on it he just said it was one of those things and he was sorry. I told him how hurt I was that he did not want me but wanted to sort himself out and he said he understood why I was so upset, but gave no explaination. He is still talking about us moving in together when the divorse is done,and planning things for later this year, and I dont doubt that he cares about me, but I really dont get the whole no sex but happy to sort him self out thing.. feeling really down today :-(
2007-01-10 22:55:58 · answer #3 · answered by happy girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did he fulfill you mostly interior the previous? If this is many times been like this he would desire to be feeling inadequate interior the mattress room. 60% of girls human beings be stricken by issues achieving orgasm....my spouse is one in all them and simply by this i will permit you realize as a guy this is the two problematic and does not relatively make you sense like having intercourse. If this is not the priority or has under no circumstances been a undertaking then individually i could have him observed with the aid of a buddy of yours....he would desire to be double dipping in case you realize what I recommend. i did not start up having intercourse, with the aid of decision, until age 24 and once I did i replaced into and am nevertheless up for it on each occasion and anyplace even at 38. stable success!
2016-10-30 11:08:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. You did not say how long you have been together. A lot of the time, what happens is the "honeymoon" stage is over. He feels comfortable with you and does not feel the need to "impress" you anymore.
Try doing things to "spice" up the relationship. Play games, "tease"him (what I mean by that is make him want to be with you)
If all else fails.....Talk to him and share your concerns with him. That is probably the best thing you could possibly do.
2007-01-09 08:23:19 · answer #5 · answered by ame_369 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl he is cheating on you, and if not that he's still cheating because he is gay. What you need to do is take a day off of work , and follow him everywhere he goes that day in one of your friends car to see his daily routine, because something is not right and you need to get to the bottom before you go into deep depression. Him living with you doesn't mean anything.
2007-01-09 08:24:06 · answer #6 · answered by Baby Cole 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
his sex drive might be running on low, hunny don't worry, guys are like that, they change every once in a while without even noticing.
2007-01-09 08:20:40 · answer #7 · answered by pinkcari05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can still cheat on you if he is living with you. I would.
2007-01-09 08:19:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to something different. go to the X-stream
2007-01-09 08:21:02 · answer #9 · answered by Earth to Mars 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try dropping 50 pounds.
2007-01-09 08:24:06 · answer #10 · answered by BUM 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋