Teen Guys, do you listen to what your friends say? I am getting really freaked because at school i can notice my bf going trough a lot of peer pressure. His buddies don't pressure him, but other guys do. And its about sex. He's only 14 and i know he dosnt want to do it, but now im scared since so many people are pressuring him that he'll just explode and make a bet or something to try to have sex with me when he comes over,and i REALLY don't want to. Im only 13! Hes really nice but sometimes peers preessure you to do unwanted things!
2007-01-09 08:11:08 · 18 answers · asked by MileyCyrusFan♥ 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
He just came over and i told him" i couldnt help overhearing that your friends are talking about sex. I just think you should not listen to them. Be yourself." He replied" I am not planning that until marrige which i hope happens with u. I truly like u!" And then he hugged me and gave me a little kiss. If you answered please tell me if i did the right thing. Oops gotta go he's outta the bathroom. LOL!
2007-01-09 08:26:48 · update #1
*Well, just don't do anything your not ready for. If he breaks up with you because you don't want to. Then he wasnt right for you anyways.
2007-01-09 08:16:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best way to handle this is too talk with him. Let him know what is okay and what is not ok. Tell him at your age you are not ready to get physical but you do however love things just the way they are. Be nice but firm about it. You will probley find out that he agrees with you and the tension will go away. Take it from me. The last thing you want to do is have sex at 13. That is when I became sexually active and I had a baby at 15. Needless to say it is something you should wait on. Good luck.
2007-01-09 16:27:16 · answer #2 · answered by love me despite it all 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
sweety think about yourself, you are young and sex should be the last thing on your mind right now. If you really like him tell him that and tell him to think of the consequences as well. Dont give in to peer preasure and end up in a situation you might regret. I hope I helped if not and you do decide to make that move please talk to your mother or someone you trust about protection and birth controll. good luck
2007-01-09 16:18:53 · answer #3 · answered by beautybstar 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be strong, if you do not want to have sex then say NO! You are way to young to be experiencing adult situations. I wish you the best of luck. When you are ready be preparred. Use condoms, and be on birth control.
2007-01-09 16:16:52 · answer #4 · answered by Sara 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is a great responsibility with having intercourse. if you have started your period than you can potential get pregnant. and there are tons of teens out there that have gotten pregnant after having sex just once.
think to yourself...could I handle raising a baby in 10 months? and that should be your answer...
2007-01-09 16:16:30 · answer #5 · answered by lv_consultant 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
these people that are pushing him into this corner have peobably never done it either,they just think it makes them look good ,he should tell them if they want to die young go ahead as he respect his girl and wont attempt anything till shes of age ,,,talk to him and work out together what to say ,,,something that will shock them like ask them who they have done it with ,,,then ask the girl i bet they are lieing lol
2007-01-09 16:16:41 · answer #6 · answered by whitecloud 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
then when you two are talking next, agree together not to let anyone pressure either of you into anything. and stop talking about the state of your virginity- both of you. its no ones business and if you stop talking about it people will wonder. love the mystery!!!
2007-01-09 16:16:03 · answer #7 · answered by shar71vette 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
trust me no guy dosent want sex he just feels presured that your hearing this and you might think hees a pervert
2007-01-09 16:14:23 · answer #8 · answered by vengince11 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
are you both I'm 9th grade BC if not
he will it he is a freshman he will prollyyy want sex
and don't believe any crap that he will kill himself
or anything else.
don't give up yourself for him
and i can beat his *** if you would like?
hehe. = ]
2007-01-09 16:19:14 · answer #9 · answered by [[♥case-face♥]] 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he brings it up to you ask him if he's ready to be a father yet or if he has a job to buy diapers and help support you and a baby
2007-01-09 16:15:46 · answer #10 · answered by demozast 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋