Seriously I want to be a wife....I know it is old school but really how can we get back to that and what all does that entail
2007-01-09 08:06:35 · 17 answers · asked by liyah's mommy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Try making it a sexual thing. Let him be dominant in the bedroom and slowly add it to every day life. If he like it, you have a chance, otherwise you have what you started with.
2007-01-09 08:12:37 · answer #1 · answered by DAD_to_3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why? it takes two to run a household should it not be more of a 50 50 deal. Ide be very carefull how yu tread in this wanting a spouse to be dominent. personally the old school did not work for alot of reasons. But if you are determined to have that kind of relationship with your spouse number one tell him how you feel. ask him how he feels about that. discuss the changes you would like to see happen. But more then likley if he is not the dominanting one now more then likley he wont be one. Unless somehow or another you have beat that out of him already.
im going to ask this where are going to be if down the line you two have split and he has taken charge of most things. You will be so lost and not know how to take charge or make decisoins because someone else has done them for you, no credit to your name not a good thing into days society.
2007-01-09 16:29:31 · answer #2 · answered by jhdjkhblpk;mvhyf nbjhghbmnbjgb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Proverbs 31. Be submissive. Don't override his ideas. Do what he says. Cook his dinner. Don't argue with him. Make him feel like he's right and smart. Tell him he is your king. Does he work? If not find him a job then quit yours. Then he will feel the burden of being in charge. Trust that he will take care of things. On the otherhand does want to be the head of the household? If he doesn't then you are the King. But no matter what you as a woman are the manager of your household. He brings home the bread and you ration it.
2007-01-09 16:14:58 · answer #3 · answered by guina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Adopt a "never say no" policy for a while. Make it your policy that if you object to something, anything, you will make that known *after* you've done it for one month or two months or whatever you deem to be a reasonable time. People get addicted to comfort and control. Then when the appointed time is over, and things start to get a little harder, he's going to get a little angrier. Then tell him that you just need him to take control of the situation. Explain what that means to you (in very precise terms) and he might go for it. He might not, but that's your best bet.
2007-01-09 17:07:44 · answer #4 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need to be careful here as if he has too much control
he could end up trying to control you. Give him the re-
sponsibility of paying the bills; fixing little things that need
fixing around the home; and last but not least make him
be the main bread winner(money maker) of the home.
2007-01-09 21:06:14 · answer #5 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You knew how he was before you married him. So don't cry about it now. But am going to tell you something. Maybe it will work and maybe it won't. I think it will. Suck his d i c k almost every night. In call him daddy or dad out the bedroom as well. Tell him how strong he is. You need to make him feel strong and dominant. And if you don't like sucking d i c k you better start. Hey if you don't then don't complain. Now if your already sucking d i c k . Let him f u c k in the butt. Let him take control in the bedroom. That make them think they are dominant and they control the house hold. Please your man.
2007-01-09 16:21:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
get up make him breakfast and send his a@@ out the door to a job and when the bills come hand them over and let him pay them . when you need to go shopping just ask him for the money so you can shop and do all the other house hold Erinn's. let him do all the fixings and let him make all the decisions involving the house, kids, vacations .
2007-01-09 16:15:43 · answer #7 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i luv my man but Valerie got the Alpa Dog lol. i knew what i had before the wedding and i know what i am gonna get after the wedding so u didnt go in with blinders on and the man is PLEASED every nite.
2007-01-09 17:08:20 · answer #8 · answered by ray g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have one of those men...Alpha Male they are called.....and darn glad for it too! Stong, Aggressive, Smart....Man enough to solve problems, take the bull by the horn and make things happen.
Had my share of losers though...but knew a good thing when I found it!
2007-01-09 16:35:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And what does your husband want? An equal partner or an old fashion not equal wifey.
2007-01-09 16:45:00 · answer #10 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋