my mom slept with my boyfriend.
2007-01-09 07:21:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This sounds like something jerry springer would love. Do you live in a trailor park?
2007-01-09 07:26:11 · answer #1 · answered by GuZZiZZit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's disgusting. Dump your boyfriend and write your mother a letter, telling her explicitly that this is not okay, and your trust and respect for her will never be the same. Distance yourself from her, find something new to get into with your girl buddies. If you're close with your bf's family (EX bf I hope) I would consider telling his parents that you're concerned he has very serious issues because he slept with your mom and that is why you broke up. Plus it would be a nice little F-U. Sorry this happened.
2007-01-09 15:29:09 · answer #2 · answered by quartertil2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with the boyfriend -- he can't be trusted.
And although it's hard or impossible to cut off ties with a mom, you need to accept the fact that while she may be your mother you can never, ever trust her.
You don't really need to confront her on it, necessarily.
You just need to accept it as a part of your (and her) reality and move on, armed with that information.
2007-01-09 15:27:33 · answer #3 · answered by Rvn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, theres really no easy way around something like that. Just confront her, see where things go after that. Thats pretty sad that your mom would do something like that in the first place, and im hoping that you got rid of that guy, he's definatly not worth keeping around.
2007-01-09 15:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, dump your boyfriend. Remember, it takes two. HE also slept with HER.
Talk to her. Tell her that what she did was innappropriate and completely unnacceptable. Tell her exactly what you think.
Finally, was your boyfriend under 18? If so I would also remind your mother that she is now a statutory rapist and you should never have to have a conversation with her about messing with your boyfriends...unless she'd like to go to jail.
Sounds like your mother needs mental help.
2007-01-09 15:29:22 · answer #5 · answered by dancing_in_the_hail 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if my mom slept with my man, i would be pissed. Wait until you are with her alone, and tell her, that it was rude, disrespectful, and very inconsiderate, and that it really hurt you. and this is something that may dramitically change your realationship with her. and as for your man, kick the jerk to the curb, he should have known better
2007-01-09 15:26:36 · answer #6 · answered by tuffchevy86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u have definite proof, dump the bf right away and tell ur mom u kno what she did with him and wanna talk about it
2007-01-09 15:30:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a great role model you have. Of course say something to her, and don't bring your boyfriends back around to her and if you haven't already done so, GET RID OF THE BOYFRIEND!!
2007-01-09 15:26:41 · answer #8 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OMG!! if you have the proof tell her with your boyfriend in the room too.
2007-01-09 15:26:35 · answer #9 · answered by allie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have real proof...then you could go to her and ask her if he really told her that she is better in bed than you are.
2007-01-09 15:25:08 · answer #10 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋