The females I work with frequently ask questions about my intimate life and make sexual comments... like have I ever done this or ever done that. It's fun usually. But now that I'm single again, I want to know if one of them likes me. She doesn't participate in the commenting as much... she usually just laughs.
2007-01-09 07:17:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I think we use to play that kind of games only if we like the person whom we are playing this games.
Anyway it doesn't mean necesarily that they would do dirty things or anything, sometimes that kind of talk just turn you on, but you are not willing to do such a thing.
Anyway, I'd say the other group that make the comments and play, maybe they like you, but the one you are wondering, the one that doesn't participate, just laughs; you cannot be sure, maybe she likes you, maybe not, maybe she only find this fun and that's all, or maybe she is shy.
What i can tell is that if you like her, you should ask, but not playing around like the others, but speaking directly, and maybe seriously with her. Ask her out, chat, etc.
On the other hand, if you are looking for someone to play with, to enjoy life, to play hardcore games, you can try with any of the other girls who are willing to make fun of those things.
2007-01-09 07:34:24 · answer #1 · answered by Popocatepetl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women say sexual comments without thinking about the fact that it might get a reaction from a man. I'd look for some other indicators that she likes you, before you act on this. Or you could just ask her out regardless of the sexual comments
2007-01-09 08:56:17 · answer #2 · answered by isiseamenhotep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably the best of the lot. A woman cheapens herself when she makes vulgar remarks to a man. I'd ask her out for lunch one day and go from there. Yes, when a woman makes a sexual comment, especially often, she's coming on to you. But a decent woman won't do this and if she does like you, it is for more than just your body.
2007-01-09 07:22:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
At a factory where a friend of mine works, there is this one girl that got fired for whatever reason, they they let her back in. Since then, she flirts with guys the company wants to fire and when they flirt back, she turns them in. The company is using her to bate future fire victims. If you like a girl at work, I reccomend keep things professional and only flirt out of curiousity off the clock/job. These days, you could risk a career over a little fling.
2007-01-09 15:58:07 · answer #4 · answered by onecharliecat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of the times it is the one who you think doesn't like you that does. Then again, a lot of women will ask men that they work with questions like that because they feel more secure asking you as opposed to asking one of their guy friends that may know the person that they are talking to.
2007-01-09 08:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by mizznelly27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a general rule, i suggest you really think twice about dating the people you work with. If you are male- be even more careful because all it would take is for one of the females to scream 'sexual harassment'. Over familiarization breeds contempt!
2007-01-09 07:26:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know... you gotta watch out for the quite ones. They usually have the most active imaginations/fantasies. ;)
But seriously though, I would just strike up friendly conversation with her alone. Definitely don't bring up the freaky sexual questions. Take it slow, keep in genuine and if it's meant to be it will be.
2007-01-09 07:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by Nitnit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Invite them all to a party with you as the only male. See which one(s) will put their words into an action plan. Have a few soft core pornos playing, and a few toys handy for those into such things.
2007-01-09 07:25:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some times.
2007-01-09 07:20:47 · answer #9 · answered by Baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily.
This could be rather tricky and if not handled properly could land you into a bigger mess.
Try approaching the one you mentioned who laughs but does not pass any remarks.
Have a laidback conversation to see if she's into you, if she is, take it from there.
2007-01-09 13:21:17 · answer #10 · answered by ViRg() 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋