My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while. I'm not ready to have sex and he is. He is a pretty agressive person and tried having sex with me. I told him no. But he put his penis in me I got him off like 3 seconds into it. It was 3 weeks I'm not late yet or anything my im having chest pain and my stomache hurt. But i may just be stressing out. Help me. I didnt do anything before he tried having sex with me to make him "Excited" or anything. But im really scared.
2007-01-09 06:49:30 · 20 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Wow....thats borderline rape. You shouldn't be pressured before you are ready and guys ALWAYS think they are ready. If you love him and want to stay with him, do not put yourself in a position where he can do this again. KEEP THE CLOTHES ON so he has no opportunity to try something you are not ready for. As for worrying, it is very very rare but you can become pregnant from preejaculant (a mans PreCum). You are probably fine so just worry about getting him under control or getting out. Hang in there!
2007-01-09 06:56:55 · answer #1 · answered by KB 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-17 00:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch that boy! anyone who pressures you in any way to have sex is not someone you can trust to be a good man. if youre having sex with someone, even with birth control, youre taking a risk that youll get pregnant. make sure that person is the kind of man who will be a good father, and stick by you should that happen. the chances of you getting pregnant from what you described are pretty small, but take a test in a month if you havent got your period. stand up for yourself and what you believe in! raise your standards! you are too good to put up with someone who doesnt respect you!
2007-01-09 07:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by sslowbliss 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, tell someone. No one here can help you the way you need. Tell someone that you trust, a parent, a teacher, an older friend, and get the heck away from this guy. If you said no, and he did it anyway, it's rape. Honey, please get help. The pain is more than likely just fear, because this boy violated you and he scares you. Get away while you still can. Keep someone with you at all times, keep doors at home locked, and never ever be alone with him. Best of luck, and please please please get some help. It's not your fault, but you need to get out now!
2007-01-09 10:11:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please tell an adult about this. You need to get away from him. You sound too sweet to be with a jerk who pressures you into things. Don't let someone take something, you aren't ready to give up yet. Once it's gone, you can't get it back. Sex is better when you ready to handle everything that comes with it. Get rid of the jerk!
2007-01-09 08:17:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. If he really loves you, he will wait until you are ready and married to him.
Otherwise find somebody. Because you are worth it!
And no I don't think you are pregnant at this point, just very stressed out! Best of Luck!
2007-01-09 07:11:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are no longer with this guy. You told him no and he still made you have sex with him? That is called rape.
Are you worried you may be pregnant? You need to talk to an adult about this if you really are worried. To ease your mind, the chances of you being pregnant are pretty slim, but you still need to be checked for STD's since it sounds as if your "boyfriend" didn't use a condom. Please stop having sex with this boy and get away from him...he sounds like nothing but trouble.
2007-01-09 06:55:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Your'e not pregnant hun,but that was rape!!You need to get rid of him. Boys like that are nothing but controlling, aggressive, abusive a**holes!!!!! Drop him and let someone know what he did to you!!!!!!!If you stay with him you'll be physically, mentally and sexually abused and no woman should have to go through that!! Your'e young and you have the chance to start over so do the right thing and save yourself!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-09 08:45:41 · answer #8 · answered by Live.Laugh.Love 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
(if you haven't done this already) - break up with this crackhead. for one, no one should ever have to be disrespected like that, and for two, if he's done this, there's no telling what other things he could do. also, tell your parents. even if nothing is wrong with you, the should know. they can help you. as for being pregnant, it doesn't sound like you are, and if you are late from when you normally get your period, it may be from stress, because stress can delay it.
2007-01-09 07:39:46 · answer #9 · answered by KatyBeth 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he did that to you after you said no then you need to break up with him NOW! before it gets worse it is not fair to you that just cause he is excited!! if you are not ready then you are not ready and if he can not respect that then you need to leave him and he is not good for you.
2007-01-09 06:56:40 · answer #10 · answered by allie 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋