2007-01-09 06:35:40 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Sex is a very big step in your life and 14 is just too young. You have to consider pregnancy and diseases and condoms do not always work, if you can actually get the guy to use one! You should really save it for someone who you love and wait until you are more mature and ready to deal with the consequences.
2007-01-09 06:41:09 · answer #1 · answered by mrsvinet 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
No, you will regret it for the rest of your life. No one knows what life is about, let alone love at 14. You are just a kid, and there's no telling what life will bring in the future. I'm sixteen and never been kissed and I'm proud of that because I know that my first kiss will be special and on my wedding night, the first time I have sex, I'll be giving my husband something that no one else has ever gotten from me....isn't that the best gift of all?
2007-01-09 10:02:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know no matter what every 1 says you are going to have the final say in this. But when you come to to that road remember that once you cross it, no matter what you find on the other side, there is no turning back.
My thought is to wait until you understand that this take more responsibility than people give it, and honestly, it's not gambling your whole life for 5 minutes of fun (Yeah that whole, baby we're gonna do it all night crap is a myth).
Maybe you should consider masturbation better. I know people condemn it but guess what, it's the safest. I've never heard anybody catch HIV or Gonorrhea, or get pregnant through masturbation. It's clean and safe and if you have problems because of religion than think about this. If god didn't want us to, he would of made our arm shorter. ;-)
Over all please be safe and good luck
2007-01-09 08:34:08 · answer #3 · answered by Diablo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a waist of 10points. You damn well know the answer to that. I see lots of these kinda questions and i dont really know what your thinking. Wait till you can have sex and not feel guilty after. 14 is just wayyyy to young.
2007-01-09 15:39:47 · answer #4 · answered by Kenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if I would be married at 14 which I was not.
2007-01-09 07:13:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You better think of the idea of having sex there are lots of things that you will regret afterwards. There is the idea of diseases now and pregancy and you have your whole life ahead of you. There is school, friends and a baby or a disease you would not have a childhood so i hope for your sake you would not do it.
2007-01-09 06:48:46 · answer #6 · answered by sissy23_1978 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dunno, would you? If so why? That's very young. Do you know all the risks to having sex? Stds? Aids? Pregnancy? Guys can lie about who they've been with, they might not know they have a disease, or even lie about that too. Just think about everything before you go and do something you'll regret. If you aren't ready to have a baby, you can't support one, I really don't think you should be having sex.
2007-01-09 07:17:53 · answer #7 · answered by lovingmommy 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
maybe you r the only 1 hoo can determine that im 14 i have dum it before once i got pregnant an i just had a mis carrage
2007-01-09 07:25:45 · answer #8 · answered by breonpinky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you mean should you have sex? no i dont think you should. wait. your not missing anything. young girls between the ages of 13-25 are becoming infected with HIV. african american women make up the majority of new HIV/AIDS cases every year. protect yourself and don't do something you're obviously not ready for. get the facts first. google HIV/AIDS. check out all the std's out there. infect yourself with knowledge not HIV.
2007-01-09 06:43:46 · answer #9 · answered by *~*Jon-Jon's Mommy!!*~* 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I imagine you meant "Should"...
Do you know the risks of STDs or pregnancy?
Do you know the different methods of protection?
I recommend starting the pill first...If you are here asking such a question, I'm sure it's gonna happen soon.
Be safe.
2007-01-09 06:42:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋