how can i tell if people from college like me?

Question

itoday i strated talking to people in diffrent groups from me,theys tarted talking back to me a bit.how can i tell if they wanna be my friend without asking them.

Answer 1

Does it matter if they like you and or want to be your friend?

Ok, maybe it does ~ though my experience of 'College' was that it was little more than a place for 'the Kids' to strut their stuff and to 'bling' each other 'un flash da fashun.'

When we are infants, we rarely discriminate and make pretty much instant friends. As we get older that changes by degrees and by age.

Instant friendships are rare, they take time to build on, if they have any worth ...though I suspect that what you really mean is that you are initially looking for 'acceptance' - and where friends can grow within it.

Don't push it, take it slow ...though don't lose the focus on why you are there. Friends cane be valuable and invaluable, but they can also 'get in your way.'

Sash.

Answer 2

I'm sure that people like you, the only problem seems to be your insecurity about your own confidence, just be yourself, when you see any other students from you college, just say "hi hows it going ?" if they like you, they will talk back if not then the chance's are they will blank you, but don't worry there's plenty of other people out there.

Answer 3

Just continue to go up to them and start talking like you've been doing. In a couple of days you will have friends.

Answer 4

Go to the bar and buy everyone a drink. They'll be your friends. Next day go to the bar and see who buy's you a drink!! cynical.. maybe.

Answer 5

keep talkin if they give you a smile they r thinkin ur friend material. if they stare @ u like ur weird they don't want 2 b ur friend