me and my bf have been sexually active for almost a year and we have never used a condom. He has a baby with another girl already and i havent got prego yet and we have sex at least once a day. does this mean i cant have kids?
2007-01-09 06:18:00 · 13 answers · asked by woowoo 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
A couple is usually considered infertile if pregnancy has not occurred after one year of unprotected, well-timed intercourse. This does not mean you can't have kids, it just means you need to see a dr. to find out what the problem is.
2007-01-09 06:22:50 · answer #1 · answered by jilldaniel_wv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO>>>>this does not mean you are infertile. I have been sexually active for 20 years. I was married for 12 years of that. We always had umprotected sex, as we wanted to have a child. We divorced about 5 years ago. He now has an 11 month old baby girl and I am 5 months pregnant. lol Imagine that.
However, if you have concerns about the posibility of infertility, you may want to ask your gyno if you have any female problems that could prohibit you from conceiving. And if you are trying to get pregnant, there are alot of factors that play with fertility, such as, too much caffeine can decrease your chances for conception. it acts as a natural birth control. do some research on the internet. There are alot of things that can be done naturally to inhance your chances.
Good luck to you.
2007-01-09 14:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are not practicing any form of birth control including the pull-out method, and you're having sex every day for a year as you said then, there is likely an infertility problem here. If he HAS been pulling out before you-know, then you may be fine. If you are concerned, get checked out sooner than later -- time can be essential in this case. Besides, sexually active women need regular check ups.
2007-01-09 14:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by Shorty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you *trying* to get pregnant with your "boyfriend"?? If you're thinking about trying to get pregnant, maybe you should think about getting married first. That being said, I wouldn't consider yourself infertile unless a doctor says so. You could just have missed your ovulation period, or been too stressed, there's a million reasons. My husband and I were trying for almost a year and a half (and already have a 4 year old). We were doing it very often, obviously without protection, and then all the sudden I was preggo. So, don't use this as a sign that you are infertile and if you're not trying to get pregnant, use birth control - and if you are, then get married!
2007-01-09 14:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO it just means that you might have timing issues..If you and your boyfriend are committed to each other in having this baby then you both should go and see a doctor and have the necessary tests. As far as getting married, I leave that to you, but I would check to see what your bf has done in the way of being a dad for his other child.
2007-01-09 14:32:04 · answer #5 · answered by sirmrmagic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that doesnt mean you are infertile. I dont think people realize how difficult it is to get pregant after all thats part of the reason they call babies miracles. If you really want to get pregnant go see a doctor or get one of those ovulation tests to find out when your ovulating so that u may have sex exactly at the time of ovulation. good luck!
2007-01-09 14:30:22 · answer #6 · answered by Aquafina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessicarily, My hubby and I have been sexually active for 6 years with no protection and he even finished inside of me several times. But as soon as we were ready, guess what it happened the first time. So it is just God knowing you aren't ready and you'll get a baby when the time is right.â¥
2007-01-09 14:53:21 · answer #7 · answered by ♥USMCwife♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it could mean that you might have trouble getting pregnate, but I would not say that is for sure yet. Your bf's spearm count would also be low if you are having sex daily. Fertility specialist will usually tell you to only have sex every other day to give the man's sperm time to fully replenish itself. Hope that helped.
2007-01-09 14:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn't. It means you've gotten lucky.
You guys really need to evaluate where your priorities are. I know you didn't ask, but I'm going to tell you anyway. You either need to get married, get commited, or straighten up. At least get some protection. It's not fair to bring a child into that.
I'm done now. =) Have a nice day.
2007-01-09 14:22:47 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No it just takes some women longer to get pregnant but I would go to the doctor and they would be able to give you some advice on trying to concieve
2007-01-09 14:22:16 · answer #10 · answered by goodmommy22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋