I need some advice on what to do about problems that I'm having in my RL marriage because of my MUD marriage. Bot my RL husband and I play the same mud together. He has been married in the MUD for a couple of months now. He and his MUD wife rp sex a couple of times a week. I know that it's just a game so it doesn't make me upset. However, I didn't want to go as far as to RP sex. Now I'm married in the game and my RL husband is mad at me for it. The only reason that I did it was so that I could have player children to help out newbies. We're not going to have sex and we don't even say I love you.
Now my husband isn't talking to me and when he does it's all depressed or angry. I need to know how to deal with it. What do I do? Should I let him put rules on me that don't apply to him? Or is it normal for this kind of stuff to happen? I would ask this in the marriage section but I assume most people there don't MUD.
2007-01-09 05:41:06 · 3 answers · asked by Stephanie C 2 in Games & Recreation ➔ Video & Online Games
Oh my freaking gosh! If his character is allowed to get married and RP sex and you have no problem with it then he has NO RIGHT to be mad at you for having your character get married...even if you were RPing sex. That's one thing that irritates me to no end...when rules allpy to one person of the couple but not both. I know how you feel because my wife does that to me a lot too...she is allowed to act a certain way but I am not. If I act that way she talks to me about it and I'm the bad guy if I don't stop. If she acts that way and I try to talk to her about it, I'm still the bad guy because I "just don't understand". I know how you feel and I sympathize with you. It's like the phrase...what's good for the goose is good for the gander.
I think you and he need to have a little talk and discuss this. Ask him how it is any different between what you are doing and what he is doing. Remind him that it is just a game and that if he wants you will stop...but he'll have to stop too. Tell him to be reasonable and fair. He is not being so now.
2007-01-09 07:13:44 · answer #1 · answered by Guvo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is MUD? I've probably heard of it before though just not in that term. But I honostly don't think he has the right to get mad when he has a "MUD" wife as well and it's all on the internet is what i'm guessing. If your not getting jealous about it then neither should he, but if he has a problem with it, then maybe both of you shoul call it quits. Maybe divorce your MUD partners lol, and you two marry on there? I think it's very normal for stuff to happen like that. My boyfriend will get overly jealous when we're on xbox live and it seems like 20 million guys will start to hit on me, and then the fighting will start with us or he'll start to argue with the other guys.
I think you need to just sit down and talk to him and tell him to maybe quit the game if it hurts him that much, or atleast quit the whole role-playing marriage life. If not there will be many fights to come.
2007-01-09 06:02:20 · answer #2 · answered by mtoWCS09 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She were given a mudpack and appeared tremendous for 2 days. Then the airborne dirt and mud fell off... She ran after the garbage truck, yelling, "Am I too late for the garbage?" the motive force suggested, "No, leap in!" LMAO!!!!!!
2016-12-02 01:24:06 · answer #3 · answered by barby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋